Okay here is the scoop...
I broke up with my ex like 2 weeks ago and well for a bit now I was talking too this guy named Eric. He lives a block away from my house and well it seems though we have worked together at a retirement home, but before then I saw him on the bus as mine and saw him ebfore we worked together. Now 3yrs has passed and I was still with my guy(ex now) and now Eric and I are hanging out more and we have lots in common, he is a year or so older then myself and he is a very Intelligent man he graduated from college to be an engineer building waterparks and rollercoasters, He liekd me for 4 years now and he still has the hots for me. He recently broke up with his girl told him I wanna be friends nothing more right now, Today I talked to my ex and he told me he is staying with us for a week cuz his shower @ home isn't working so he is gonna help out with us etc. I am surrounded and I have no idea how to escape from here, please tell me what I should do, I'm suppose to
2007-03-26 04:32:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be seeing Eric tomorrow (Tuesday) for his 23rd Birthday and now I can't because of my ex boyfriend now I am so confused I love my ex so much still want him back but on the other hand I really like this new man we get along so nicely everyone adores him unlike my ex a lot of ppl didn't like him =(....So people any suggestions?
Thanks,
Jackie
2007-03-26 04:34:05 · update #1
If you truely love your ex then you wouldn't be looking into other guys. I can tell that your just really confused. Why did you say your ex could come and stay with you if you didn't want him to. You could have obviously told him no but you didn't. So my guess is that you did want him to. You can always give him a second chance and if things doen't work out than go from there. But if things did work out and you would be happy then what the heck why not go for it? Its your decision just listen to your heart its usually right about these kinds of things! Good luck!
~Meiko
2007-03-26 04:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he an ex? Also, since he's an ex, why are you letting him in and out of your life like this? I would not be giving favors to smeone who dumped me. If you're trying to win him back, you are being majorly unfair to Eric. If you can figure that out,it will help you get over him. If you can't figure it out, you need to stay single for awhile until you figure out what kind of person you want to be with.
2007-03-26 11:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big mistake letting EX stay with you...
May have killed your chances with Eric...
2007-03-26 11:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋