My best friend accused me of talking behind her back.She called me and asked me did I call her stupid and told somebody I was pregnant and my husband doesn't work and I'm stupid for getting married.I told her calmly I shared her goods news to my mom,sisters,and boyfriend, I asked for her permission first before telling everyone so that this type of confusion will come up.I thought it was over with and she believed me, yesterday my bf told me she talked to him saying that I told her sister that she was stupid for marrying someone 3 years younger,doesn't keep a job I know I didn't say anything like that I told her sister I hope she is going to be happy with her baby and hope the situation she is in gets better.Why in the hell would I call her stupid in front of her sister when I know she would go back and tell her.I told myself she doesn't think of me as being her friend if she thinks I would say that so I haven't spoken to her,it hurts because I always been there for her.
2007-03-26 04:23:07 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetface24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That sounds terrible. Anyway, I think you should try to talk to her face to face and not over the phone. Somehow, whenever I talk to my friends over the phone, there seems to be some misconceptions. =/ If she still continues to do such things, I think you should just ignore her and forget about the friendship. True friends will not go around spreading rumours about you. Learn from this friendship and treasure your other true friends.
Don't worry that other of your friends might be taken in by her, because true friends will not believe rumours and will believe in you no matter what happens, so long as you say that it's not true.
Look on the bright side, at least you've found out that she isn't a very reliable friend afterall.
2007-03-26 04:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by lea- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really sucks that you have to put up with this with your friend. Talk to her face to face, not over the phone. Your goal is clear up all the confusion and reassure her that you would never say anything mean and insulting about her sister. From the information I've read about you, it sounds like you guys have a history of confusion and misunderstandings. If your friend knew what kind of person that you are, she wouldn't believe those rumors and if she had a problem with that, she should ask you about it. Good friends are hard to find these days and she is not a good friend. If all doesn't go well with her, at least you know what kind of person she is. In the meantime, continue to stay focused on what's really important in life and don't sweat the small stuff. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-03-26 12:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you and her have had a history together. This sounds like a lack of communicating and hurting friends. If you aa her are as great friends as i think you are, remember the value of a relationship and the fact that regardless of any diagreement, you are still the person that made each realize that there is a part of you in each other. Call, clear the air and move on an or forward
2007-03-26 11:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by msmarle99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋