I went away on a course last week with my work colleague who is my fiance's best friend, we were having a great time away just as friends, and then we just kissed, I don't know why, i'm not attracted to him and as I pulled away and said no feeling guilty, turned around and my fiance was standing there he had come to surprise me!!
I love my fiance so much and are getting married this year, he isn't talking to me, isn't answering my calls and I am thinking about going round but what shall I say, how do I tell him i'm sorry and it was a mistake and that I love him? Please help.
2007-03-26 04:21:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your question ought to be bigger than just "I'm sorry, it was a mistake." You need to examine yourself...what made you do what you did? Is that the real you, will it happen again?
2007-03-26 04:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by One Who Knows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to figure out why you kissed this other guy. I mean if it was that easy then somethings up. Maybe your relationship isn't as exciting as you want it to be. Better give him some time to cool off...then talk to him and try to get to the bottom of why you felt inclined to kiss someone else. I know you say you felt bad but if your lips managed to touch, then there's a problem.
2007-03-26 04:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him what really happened and if he loves you he will forgive you and not be mad anymore. just tell him that you got caught up in the heat of the moment and he kissed you and you pulled away and told him no and that it meant nothing to you because you love him very much and don't want to be with anybody else in the world except for him and if he doesn't forgive you then then he doesn't really love you.
2007-03-26 04:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by William P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would have been awful to be in his shoes, but you need to just give him time to make his decision. You already showed your action and it really is up to him. You may love him and have no excuse for what you did, but what can you do now? Just let him know what you feel - don't harass him, and be ready to face his decision. It might lead to not being engaged anymore or even together anymore, or he just may forgive you, but either way, give him time to breathe and think it through.
2007-03-26 04:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might in basic terms be checking out you appropriate now. She is in all possibility uncertain approximately relationship in basic terms you, terrified of rejection. in basic terms wait it out and see. If she needs greater, she'll aid you know. If not, a minimum of you 2 can nevertheless be acquaintances.
2016-10-19 23:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him good brain like your a college graduate
2007-03-26 04:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is just to bad. Give him time to cool off, you guys really need to sit down and talk at where you stand.
2007-03-26 04:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him it only happened once, and apologize profusely. However, I have to say, I wouldn't forgive you either. Good luck, you're gonna need it.
2007-03-26 04:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by solitas777 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i tell you what if he does not marry you
come to Alaska and i will marry you.
2007-03-26 04:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thanks. got a good laugh out of you story. dumb ****.
ps: looks like you arent getting married anymore! lollers!
2007-03-26 04:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋