Girlfriend cheating?

Question

How do I know when my girlfriend is cheating on me? Whats are the signs?

Answer 1

If you feel it, then you have had signs already. Come out and ask her, and tell her you feel this way, and that because of it, you will be more alert to it.

Answer 2

the surest signs are the most obvious signs..

like she's not home when you call. or if she is she is too busy to talk.

or if she suggests you start hanging out with your guy friends more. it's because if you are out, then she can go out too...

or like marks on her neck.(duh)

general distancing of herself from you..

most guys don't see it right in front of their eyes...
but then after the fact they feel really stupid because all the 'warning signs' were there all along.

u will know. and maybe if you are wondering you should just ask...because there is no use in making fool out of your self if she is cheating..
it would probably be a load off of her mind if she is, and she would probably just confess everything.

and if you have a good relationship and she isn't cheating.. you two can discuss why it was that you were even feeling this way in the first place..

good luck man, i hope that she's not.

Answer 3

Well it depends. Why do you feel your gf is cheating on you? Maybe you had a feeling but maybe shes not cheating on you or maybe she is. The signs you should look for is does she act different than what she used to, is she late to everything and gives you every excuse in the book then maybe she is cheating on you but maybe shes having a difficult time or having family problems. Maybe you should ask her if everything is ok but dont mention the cheating ok.

Answer 4

Hmm....I've never had this happen PERSONALLY. However, I believe some obvious signs would be:

1. Calls and texts from her have become less frequent
2. Avoids being around you
3. Doesn't appear as happy to see you
4. Neglects to spend time with you
5. Makes up excuses why she can't see you
6. Less expressive toward you emotionally
7. Dresses more provacatively (to get someone elses attention)
8. Or you catch her cheating on you!

Basically, I think that when your significant other's BEHAVIOR changes from gooey-gooey-lovey-lovey to indifference...this my friend is a yellow flag.

Answer 5

Common Sense is right. But in some how or way she has given you a reason to have these suspicious feelings to begin with. So when you ask her, and she says no, do you expect you'll be able to believe her and your reasons for suspicion will just go away? If it looks like a duck, and it walks like a duck, and it quacks like a duck.............its a duck! Unless your greatly vested in the woman, do yourself a favor and get out before you become so. Trust me, it only gets worse. Trust your gut, it never lies to you......

Answer 6

You always can hire somebody to follow her but that is not the point Right?

You get to know why do you want to know this on a first place :)
If she cheats? what ?

Just ask her
If she does - she have to decide who is more important and why. And if that happened to be you - you guys have to have good talk. What is missing in your relation to make her to look at somebody else.

Answer 7

She will always find excuses to avoid you. The moment your g/f starts this, know that she's up to something.

Answer 8

Always out late, not looking at your eye when you ask her a question and don't want to have any sex with you.

Answer 9

if you are asking this question then you already suspect her and unfortunately will never trust her. All relationships are based upon trust and if you do not trust her then you have no relationship.

Answer 10

If you have to ask such a question, then she is cheating. And if she is not, you don't trust her and you shouldn't be together anyway.