And are no longer caring about getting some STRANGE action on the side?
2007-03-26 03:59:11 · 12 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like a great idea. How strange are we talking though?
2007-03-26 06:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why should it? I think marriage is right no matter what age. Just because you turn 50, doesn't mean you're immune to whatever you mean by strange action on the side. For some people marriage early is right, for others it isn't. It just all depends on the person. You can't say no one should get married before 50. I'll get married whenever I find the right person. I may say that getting married at age 18 may be a bit young, because you haven't experienced life, but if they want to do it, it's up to them. I personally always thought that I'd be married at 25, have 2 kids by 30, but look at me now, still single at 31. If I ever find the right guy, I'd be crazy not to marry him at whatever age, just because I'm afraid he's going to cheat on me. If he's going to cheat on me, whether we're married or not is not going to matter. I think it all depends on the couple. You can't just blanket statement it and say everyone should wait until after 50 to get married.
2007-03-26 11:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by tinaroonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to get out there and get some 'strange action', why not have an open marriage or start swinging? There is nothing about marriage that is definitely monogamous. In fact, if we want to piss off the biblical crowd we can talk about the polygamous marriages of the bible. Of course, they'll scream CULTURAL CONTEXT! And then, we'll say "Open marriage? CULTURAL CONTEXT" Of course, our culture is a sign that the end times are sooooo near. Uh huh. Just like they've been saying since the so called death of christ.
2007-03-26 11:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you'd seriously miss out on the process of really building a life together - and from what you're asking, I suggest you just keep dating, until you really are ready to be 100% faithful - marriage isn't something to be taken lightly like that.
2007-03-26 11:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never thought about that but it sounds like a great idea, but on the other hand I seen plenty of oldies hitting on the young ones my self included.
So I guess once a dog always a dog.
2007-03-26 13:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-26 11:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree totally with you. You have to wait until you get the spring-chicken fever out first. Then you are ready to spend it with ONE person for the rest of your whole entire LIFE>>>
2007-03-26 11:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I've been married for 20 years now, and have no regrets (and haven't cheated). When I am 52, I will have my 30th anniversary.
2007-03-26 11:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Paul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks like they already cooked your goose..
turkey.....down to the bone....and whats left...
is your feathers...
yea i say its a good time to move on...
take it from the female ***** being sure you
plan to leave behind....take all those bones you buried
as that hole you left in the ground,,, this female,,,
can use your feathers to start over a new egg nest..
2007-03-26 11:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the rate of divorce now it might be best because ppl just don't know how tomake it work
2007-03-26 11:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋