can someone please tell me i'am like few weeks pregnant (3-4) and i dont know what is better i just want to take the abortion pill .
2007-03-26 03:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by cin cin 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Are you sure that you are only 3-4 weeks pregnant? This would mean that you hadn't even missed your period yet, since your pregnancy is counted from the first day of your last period. By the time you miss your perriod you are 4-5 weeks pregnant already. I don't think this is the forum in which to get advice on something as serious and life altering as an abortion. Also, many women in this section are either trying to conceive or are pregnant and don't want to talk about abortion.
2007-03-26 03:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer your question before I say- there are other choices that are better than taking the life of your child- I know you did not want to hear that- but now I will share with you the side effects of the abortion pill- which is RU-486.
There is not just one pill- the process involves a series of pills that would induce the chemical abortion- followed by several visits to the clininc for cervical exams. The 1st pill- Mifepristone, will deplete the lining of the uterus. It prevents progesterone in your body from working- that will cause the developing embryo will shut off and the baby would suffocate. 2 days later you will return to the clinic- to receive the 2nd pill- prostaglandin- which induces labor, and causes you to deliver the baby. And their are no guarantees that this will be successful. After taking the 2nd pill- you can become very nauseated- with the horrible cramps and bleeding. You take the pill so you do not have to have a surgery procedure- however when you start hurting you will wish that you were at the drs. office- bleeding is far worse then a period. You can deliver the sac with the embryo inside at home alone. Many girls/woman have to see this alone. so hopefully you will be at the docs when this occurs- you will have to return to the office to make sure the abortion is complete,
1- bleeding up to a month
2- infections - RU-486 suppresses the immune system
3- hospitalization due to hemorrhaging
4- extreme sleep disturbances
5- impaired future fertility.
And if you think that a surgical proc. is better listen to this-
1- infections
2- torn uterus
3- miscarriages later
4- bleeding
5- damage to other organs- (the dr. cannot see what he is doing, while doing an abortion)
6- some deaths have been reported- and not just from illegal abortions either.
And also remember that you will never forget your abortion- guilt and shame can happen. Do the right thing for yourself and your baby- if you say that you can do anything you want to your own body- remember the risks I have sent you, if nothing else.
2007-03-26 05:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Please don't have an abortion. So many people would love to adopt your child. Look up abortion on the internet, see what it really is. Have a 3 d ultra sound and see your baby. You are not a murderer, why would you want to kill your own child? This is your child- not just a group of cells. You could make some families dream come true by adopting out this child if you didn't want to raise it.
I have a daughter and trust me, being pregnant is one of the most wonderful experiences of my entire life. There is nothing like being able to feel those tiny feet moving around inside you and hearing their little heart beat.
Your child is growing inside you. You are supossed to be that childs protecter. My Aunt had an abortion once. The doctor told her that she could never get pregnant. But one night she got raped and got pregnant. She had an abortion and could never get pregnant again. I wonder what God had in plan for that child.
I am not saying that it was His will for her to get raped but sometimes God can take our sins or bad experiences and turn them into something wonderful.
My mother-in-law got pregnant at 15. His Dad was 17. If she had had an abortion- I wouldn't of gotten to marry the love of my life and we wouldn't have this beautiful daughter.
Having an abortion alters more than just your life. Its selfish. Even if you don't want to raise the child, 9 months is not that long. Have the baby and help make someone elses dreams come true. You will be a lot happier with yourself in the end.
The Bible says that God knit us together in our mothers womb. And that He knew us when we were in secret. If that doesn't tell you that this really is a baby- I don't know what is. God knows us before our mothers even know that they are pregnant.
Don't have an abortion. Look at babies and be amazed at the fact that that is what is inside of you.
Be informed. Read on abortion and I don't mean the sites that encourage it. Wouldn't they hide the bad facts from you?
You can see pictures of what your baby will look like if you abort it. You will never see it, but the doctor will and God will.
God loves you and He loves that baby. You don't know more than God- He knows what He is doing.
Like I said you are not a murderer- why start by killing your own child. The first time you see this babies face- you won't regret letting he or she live. Don't take away the joy of other peoples lives. If my mother in law had had an abortion- I wouldn't have my daughter. I wouldn't have my husband. My husband wouldn't be on te other side of the world defending our freedom. My life would not be the same.
I am praying for you and your baby.
2007-03-26 04:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by MissingHim 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I commend you for being responsible and terminating the pregnancy, rather than adding to the already strained foster care system. These questions would be better answered by a medical professional, and you should go to either your OB/GYN, or a planned Parenthood and get real answers from people that won't make judgements about you based on their religion. Abortion is not murder, but it is a responsible way to resolve the problem of an unplanned pregnancy.
Once you are past this, please be sure to use birth control. Go on the pill, shot or patch, and also make guys use a condom every time.
2007-03-26 04:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Regaurdless of how many people do not like your question they have to come to terms that abortion is legal and its not going to go away. I reccomend the sugical procedure. Its the one I had done. Yes people I had an abortion!! Go ahead and judge me but I will tell you this you dont know my situation and you certinly do not know the situation of the young lady asking the question. I will tell you this though think long and hard about it because I had to go to therapy after having one and I wanted to just crawl in a hole and hide for a long time. Also it is painful I won't lie to you about that and it will be twice as easy for you to get pregnant after having a abortion. They have a sot you can get but it is not as effective as the surgical.
2007-03-26 03:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
i dont get why you would want to do that. I wanted a baby soo bad for a long time. i finally got pregnant and i was so happy but come to find out at 11 weeks pregnant my baby's heart stopped. It was the most hurtful thing i have ever went through in my entire life. Today i am bleeding a lot, this is part of me miscarrying and it hurts. I really wish i was in your place right now. Dont kill the baby, its only innocent and knows nothing. Give it a chance to have a life and give it up for adoption, its a human being. But if you do decide to do different, learn from it and dont have sex until your married or ready to have a child.
2007-03-26 03:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by ladyspecialty 1 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Not possible dummy. Plan b cant cause miscarriages. Plan b only works for a 3 day pregnancy. Putting in a 1 week pregnant girls coffee will do nothing.
2016-03-29 08:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already missed your first period you're probably around 5-7 weeks pregnant; because most women don't and can't know at 3-4 weeks (you are exactly 4 weeks pregnant the day your period is "missed" for the first time).
The heart is already starting to beat and there are facial features and organs developing. It can already feel, it is alive, it is a human being and you can either murder it or give it up for adoption or even look in the paper - there are infertile couples that advertise every day in the Classifieds in my town, looking for someone, anyone that would be willing to help them have a child - you can give YOUR CHILD to them, instead of killing YOUR CHILD.
http://www.i-am-pregnant.com/img/week7-facial-features.jpg
2007-03-26 03:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 5⤋
the abortion pill can only be taken up to a few days AFTER you have sex. and having a surgical abortion (D&C) is another popular but expensive procedure. Why not just have the baby and put it up for adoption you will be doing more good that way than if you were to just murder the child.
2007-03-26 03:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 3⤊ 6⤋
i cant help u hun. im 100% against abortion.
if u dont want the baby..why not have it..then put it for adoption?
dont do anything stupid now that u might regret later on in ur life.
2007-03-26 03:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋