If youre bi does that mean tht you dont know what you want? help me answer this question people?

Question

ok one of my friend doesnt know that i'm bi and she kinda said something that made me kinda uncomfortable..she said that she thinks that if youre bi that that means that you arent sure what you want...that you dont know if you want a girl or a guy....in other words that you dont know if you want dick or pussy.....i think that its not true. ithink that you juss develop feelings for both....what do you people think.....

Answer 1

it means you are attracted to both sexes enjoy : )

Answer 2

I believe that sexuality is a process, not some much nature as it proves that nuture plays a big role in the development of instincts. So other words it isn't that simple. Yes in order to simplify explanation one can say that a "bi" person is basicly confused about their sexual orientation. But it helps to count out the fact that normal human sexual development is based on a whole sum of experience as oppose to a "hard wire" set of nerve connections that your born with. So to complicate things.... the fact is that your sexual development has been in some way "pervesed" or even plain "neglected" we can all conclude that for the sack of healthy natural develop if all things are in place and imprinting happens with out any... "crosswire" so to speck, that an individual well have the same basic sexuality as everyone else (of course it isn't that simple ether, even with in normal sexuality there is a broadspectrum of likes, dislikes, and preceptions.). So some where with in your development (post-sexuality, before the age of 7 even) your imprinting was change some how from that of other women who wouldn't be able to have seuxal tension with other women.... of course that isn't that simple ether..... Doesn't mean like other people think that your a lesbian or that you can swing both ways its more complicated then even that. Just means that the feelings, expectations, preception, and understanding of sex are different for you based on your personal development history. Yea you could be considered confused, but with out talking to you about it at more length an individual would just be assuming that. Human sexuality is as complicated as the human that has it....

Answer 3

Don't worry about your sexual orientation. People who are truly bisexual are seldom confused. Tell your friend to shut up. (By the way, I am hetero) Bisexual people are usually the most social people around and it is a huge advantage to them because they enjoy spending time with both sexes. If you one day feel the need to stick to one gender, then you will automatically feel it... and you may turn into a hetero or homo. Follow what you truly feel, just don't lie to yourself.