I don't know how to resolve the emotional pain that I am constantly in.
My 14 year old daughter lives in another state with her Dad. He moved due to job reasons and I live in another state. I went to take care of her. I was living in my ex-husband's house. I could not stay and things did not work out.
Now, I feel sad because I am not there to make my child's lunch, make sure she gets up in time and help her with her homework. I know that I was beaten down by him and his mother and could not do that much for her. Yet, little things make a difference in life.
I also feel sad because my ex-husband was returning to his home the weekend after I left and he said "I am looking forward to seeing you." Yet, we had also fought on the phone before that. He and my daughter used to have private phone conversations though also.
He would constantly get upset with me for different things, but was looking forward to meeting me. I feel bad, sad and guilty.
2007-03-26 03:03:17 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I remember your dilemma. Know that what you are doing is for the best for you and your child. Continue to work toward your goal of housing etc for you and your child and do what it takes to get her reunited with you. Stay in contact with her. I know is hard but you have to be strong and keep your eyes on your dream. You are her mother. And no matter what anyone says or does will change that. Your daughter loves you. Know that above all. And she will know what you have sacrificed for her when the time comes. Been there done this. Nothing is impossible unless you allow it to be. As for resolving the emotional pain you are in. That will take some time. And all pain is not resolved. Our greatest lessons learned are the ones that cause us the most pain. Hopefully the pain we have suffered will have helped someone else somehow. In ways we may never understand.
2007-03-26 03:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abusive situations come in all forms. Unfortunately, there is going to be pain. If you stay in the situation, or if you leave. If you are not happy and feel you must go-- go. I believe it is worse to stay and be unhappy. It takes strength to move on seeking a more fulfilling life. Setting the example of discontentment is not a positive to be setting, or living is it??? Put your best foot forward and make the best out of a tuff situation. Children are smarter than you think!!! You cannot be the best parent if you are in questionable relationship. Do what is best for you and by doing so hopefully it will bring positive outcomes in your life as well as your child's.
2007-03-26 03:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An instinct is an innate disposition which determines your behavior and emotions are attached to instincts. You feel pain as your instinct of love makes you feel the loneliness seeking love from special people. Find love elsewhere, such as in a NGO who cares for the poor and downtrodden. When these people show you their sincere feelings, you will find that your emotional pain has fallen flat. Find love, real love, to reduce your pain.
2007-03-26 03:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by joy bharat s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-26 04:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by bpgveg14 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
excercise, keeping busy(such as work) and praying to God and you will get passed it.
2007-03-26 03:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You wont get your anwser on here ,,
This world is as lost as you...
All i cant tell you is pray,,,
2007-03-26 03:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋