Scorpio + Cancer
Water + Water = Deluge
When people are born under the same element, they generally feel comfortable with and attracted to each other. You and Cancer fall into this category, as both of you are water signs. Astrologically, Cancer is one of your best matches by far.
You are both sensitive, emotional and caring, but Cancer’s way of expressing love is very different from yours. Your love is demanding, and asks a lot more in return than Cancer can give.
Cancer will feel they’re showering you with love and kisses, but somehow it’s never enough. You have to make them feel precious if you want the relationship to work.
Cancer will handle your possessiveness better than most signs, because they are a pretty adaptable member of the zodiac, but you’ll have to learn to curb your desire to dominate sensitive Cancer with your unrealistic demands, both practical and emotional. You do tend to use that power of yours to gain your own ends.
Although Scorpio and Cancer are well suited elementally, there are differences sexually. You are driven by the purely sensual and sexual aspects of a relationship. You need a lot more passion than Cancer. Cancer needs love and bonding before they can express unbridled passion.
Cancer will find you a sort of ‘cause’ they can dedicate themselves to emotionally. Although your strength is off-putting to some signs, Cancer tends to be able to connect directly with your soul. This can unnerve you, but at the same time endear them to you. You’ll have a long and loving relationship with them if you open up your heart.
Cancers born between 22 June and 3 July are highly sensitive but a little weak, in your opinion. Even so, they will be able to bring out the emotional side of your character. Both of you will finally realise that you have a destiny together in some sort of humanitarian work. You could work to help other people or simply to solve your own families’ crises.
Cancers born between 4 July and 13 July also have a strong attraction for you — and to you. They will easily satisfy your complex needs. Both of you will be immediately drawn to each other, and your magnetic and sexual compatibility will be evident from the start.
You can expect lots of fun times with Cancers born between 14 July and 22 July. This group is strongly ruled by the Moon, and a relationship with them is a pretty good bet, especially if you consider yourself a party animal. You can kick up your heels and let down your guard with them.
2007-03-26 15:38:18
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answer #1
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answered by sweet_leaf 7
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The Cancer woman is essentially a very feminine character, often unconsciously seductive in her mannerisms. On occasion, she will consider relinquishing a rather passionate romance in favor of a more stable and conventional relationship. As a sweetheart, she is prone to be rather clinging and likes to "mother" her partner when given the chance. Still, she usually appreciates being told not to fuss overly-much since if she feels she is being taken advantage of, she will accuse her partner of being lazy, selfish and/or degenerate. Nonetheless, this woman does like to be dominated and is happy not to win every argument or come out on top all the time.
As a life partner, she should be allowed to go her own way in every small matter and given instruction...or even bossed...on the larger matters. The female ruled by Cancer is capable of providing an attractive and artistic home, but will not necessarily want to stay there all the time. This is a woman who needs an anchor...a partner who can always be counted upon in an emotional sense. In essence, she needs a shoulder to cry on and likes to share her laughter.
As a mother, she is neither dominating nor demanding. Indeed, she often neglects to understand the nuances of her children's differing characteristics. In addition, her patience with offspring is not always reliable since there is a tendency here to be temperamental. The Cancer female is usually best with small children...babies and toddlers...but is apt to resent the increasing independence shown by older children. In short, she is likely to be impatient of what she considers to be their strange adolescent ways.
At her best, this female is sympathetic, affectionate and protective...to say nothing of being devoted and adaptable. Her presence is generally sanctifying and she understands how to serve. In return for her devotion, the Cancer woman is undoubtedly loved and respected. Still, she can often be a moody, changeable and ignorant soul...one who is unwilling to be improved. In addition, she can be temperamental to a fault and sensitive in the extreme. She oftentimes seeks protection and will need the help and guidance of a partner to provide the strength with which to meet life's problems. Any partner will almost certainly be placed upon a pedestal in this female's imagination and if that partner should fail, the spiritual shock may well prove to be crushing.
This is a passionately possessive woman and everything concerning the life of her family will be all-absorbing. On occasion, the intuitive and instinctive female ruled by Cancer does possess an uncannily accurate business sense and is able to furnish advice in that regard with unexpected wisdom. Still, taken in a general sense, the whole character here is essentially feminine with all that such implies.
Individuals of both Cancer and Scorpio are motivated by emotion and intuition. Thus, the bond shared by these two will be very strong. Scorpio natives are inclined to throw heart and soul into a relationship and expects any partner to be true. They are also prone to keep a jealous eye open for any wrongdoing. Fortunately for this pairing, the beliefs of Cancer mirror those of Scorpio and the Cancer partner will never give any reason for the Scorpio mate's jealousy to blossom. It is part and parcel of the Scorpio character to work hard...either at home or on a job...and his or her residence is the place reserved for peace and quiet, which is paramount if Scorpio is to unwind from all the daily tensions. If the emotional needs of the Scorpio native is met and he or she is comfortable with the trust placed in the Cancer partner, then it is extremely unlikely that Scorpio would ever dream of being unfaithful. Cancer's natural concern for the welfare of others may somehow lead to Scorpio thinking that those people are using Cancer's good nature and disposition...thoughts that originate from a touch of jealousy in the Cancer partner having an interest...however well-intended and innocent...in someone else. Here, the Cancer partner will have an immense respect for Scorpio and even though Cancer is of a highly critical nature, he or she will learn to phrase those criticisms without wounding the Scorpio pride.
In the area of physical romance, Cancer may well be totally possessed by Scorpio...even to the point of being inspired to a greater response than he or she can achieve with any other Sign. Thus, can Scorpio widen the Cancer horizons of passion. In short, this is a most favorable and compatible match.
The Cancer/Scorpio combination results in a drawing together of energies found in two emotionally intense Signs. This usually leads to an excellent blend, with each partner's strengths balancing the weaknesses of the other. Here, there is a very potent sexual attaction and this couple will have much in common...and much potential to keep the relationship both passionate and strong. These two will enjoy making purchases together and creating a comfortable living space. Cancer craves security and Scorpio strives for power. Thus, both partners will occupy their minds with thoughts of domestic good and resources, including stocks, bonds and inheritances. Since each individual is concerned with the home and possesses fierce loyalties to the family group, they will complement each other very nicely. In addition, these are Signs who view life as a passionate and deepy emotional exercise of human connection.
Cancer is ruled by the Moon and Scorpio is ruled by the planet Pluto, with the secondary influence of Mars (the planet that ruled Scorpio prior to the discovery of Pluto). Courtesy of Pluto's powerful influence, this is not only an intense combination of planets but a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. The blending of Cancer with Scorpio forms the basic foundation of human relationship...the Moon's nurturing love coupled with the ambition and passion associated with Mars. The Moon and Mars cooperate nicely with each other. The Moon is concerned with growth and rebirth...Mars is associated with the passion of romance. Thus, influenced by the energy of Mars, Scorpio is smoldering and intense and the emotional Cancer cannot help but be attracted to such intensity. In turn, Scorpio enjoys the adoration inherent in the Cancer native who is ruled by the nurturing Moon.
Both Cancer and Scorpio are governed by the element of Water. Hence, both these Signs are exceedingly deep and...much like the ocean...it is virtually impossible to really see to the bottom of either. Cancer and Scorpio may draw further and further into themselves and then suddenly roar back with intimidating force. Here, the loyalty between this couple will be formidable, thanks to the mutual desire for emotional security. However, while Cancer will fix emotional energy on the family and home, Scorpio is prone to focus more upon life's nuances and undertones...the secrets behind the true intentions of others and the power that can be wielded over emotions. In this pairing, the Scorpio partner can take Cancer on a journey beyond the literal surface of things and the expansive heart of the Cancer mate can open Scorpio to his or her own emotions...teaching Scorpio that feeling is nothing to fear. In addition, there can be no doubt that the Scorpio individual will appreciate Cancer's practicality and Cancer rather relishes the jealousy of Scorpio...proof to Cancer that the Scorpio mate truly loves and cherishes him or her.
Cancer is Cardinal in quality and Scorpio is Fixed. Once these two have a common wish, then it is virtually sure to be achieved. However, if opinions clash, there is going to be trouble. The Cancer partner will likely be the first to instigate an argument and Scorpio almost certainly the last to finish it. Cancer may appear to act as the dominant partner in this relationship and manage to get his or her way more often, but such is not always the case. On occasion, Scorpio refuses to even agree to disagree...simply pretending to give in...and neither Sign is beyond using emotional manipulation to exact revenge. In order for this partnership to work, each partner must strive to avoid allowing disagreements and bad feelings to boil over, instead discussing what is truly important on a personal level and then reaching an equitable compromise. Once Cancer and Scorpio learn to trust and believe in one another, they can achieve almost anything by virtue of sheer determination and this love affair will probably only fail if the couple cannot overcome their opinionated and stubborn sides.
Perhaps the best aspect of a Cancer/Scorpio match is the powerful teamwork than can result if each partner can agree on mutual goals. When Cancer realizes that Scorpio is there for the long haul and that the relationship is an emotionally productive one, there is no doubt that this affair can blossom. Here, the shared determination makes for a partnership of formidable strength.
In essence, this combination in an excellent one. Jealousy may plague both partners from time-to-time, but the magnificent mutual ability to love on a deep level will generally limit periods of conflict. Scorpio is well equipped to cope with the moods of Cancer and the excess energy of the Scorpio mate will usually act as a potent tonic for the reticence of Cancer. Thus, the Cancer/Scorpio match could prove to be one of the Zodiac's most ideal unions.
2007-03-26 03:35:44
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answer #4
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answered by Silver_Stars 6
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