Hello My boyfriend and i have been trying to have a baby we ben trying for about 2 months now and nothing im starting to get worried? but yet im being patient that maybe is not the right time. Is it normal for it to take this long? I have hurd that it has to be on a ovulating schedule i have no idea what that means. When is the right time to get pregnant after i had my period or a couple of days before? My friend got pregnant the first time and im wondering whats going on?
2007-03-26 02:52:54 · 8 answers · asked by Yossi 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Search the web for "ovulation calendar" so that you know when you are most fertile. Pick a few sites so you can get a rough estimated date. It will ask you when was your last menstral period was and a few other questions and your most fertile days will pop up. I used it after trying for a few months and now I'm 2 months pregnant.
2007-03-26 12:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tita Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, everybody's body works a little differently. In a normal (read average) 28 day cycle, your period is usually the first 3-5 days. Ovulation usually starts or occurs between 10 and 15 days. You should be able to read your temperature as just a little higher than usual when it's happening. You may have a shorter or longer period..you can find out for sure if you take note over a couple months how many days there are between the first days of your periods.
And as far as trying and not succeeding just yet, keep in mind that aat least half of all couples don't succeed right off the bat..but most do within 6 months, and about 80% make it by a year. So be patient, listen to your body clock, and have fun trying! :^)
2007-03-26 10:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Woz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all 2 months is nothing, even women that have a regular schedule can take up to 1 year to get pregnant, sometimes it will just happen like that, a snap of a finger but sometimes it will take a woman up to a year or even longer. I had a girlfriend once that it took almost 3 solid years to conceive and the doctors said there was nothing wrong with her or her husband. Don't rush it, it will happen when it happens. You can only get pregnant when you are ovulating, which is usually 12 to 16 days after the first day of your period, so if you started your period on May 1st then you might be ovulating around May 14th, but this is if you are on a regular cycle. You can go buy an Ovulation Predictor Kit from any drug store and pee on the stick and it tells you when you ovulate.
2007-03-26 09:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by echc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone ovulates at different times. For some women, it's two weeks after the first day of their last period. For some women, its shorter. Some longer. The only way to tell when you are ovulating is by charting your basal body temperature (BBT). Ovulation is the only time in which you can get pregnant. Instructions on charting your BBTs can be found here:
http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/bbt/bbtfaq.html
This site also tells you how to chart cervical changes, which are also indicators of ovulation.
Remember that it takes about 85-90% of all women a year to get pregnant, so don't be scared if it doesn't happen right away. Just chart your BBTs, know when to time intercourse with your boyfriend, and be patient. If it has been more than a year, consult your doctor.
Good luck!
2007-03-26 09:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody's different. Maybe you just didn't try the right days. 2 months is not very long to try. It could take a whole year.
When I wanted to get pregnant with my daughter, after sex I would lie on my back with my feet up in the air. It took only a matter of weeks to get pregnant. I have suggested this tip many times. I don't know if it works for everyone, but it worked for us.
2007-03-26 09:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kat H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
example you get your period on feb 1 you start ovulating between feb 15- feb21. have sex every other day not every day because sperm needs time to regenerate. so count 14 dyas after the start of your last period. have sex every other day for the week starting on the 14th day after you get your period.
2007-03-26 09:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it lets you work out the best days in your cycle to make-love....eg: when you are producing the most eggs....try the link below it may help....and just because your friend fell pg first time doesnt mean you will....i was trying 6months before i did....we are all different....try and enjoy trying...it may come quicker if you relax....good luck
2007-03-26 09:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by deni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
few days before the day~you know
2007-03-26 09:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋