2007-03-26 01:58:58 · 11 answers · asked by ava g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not always. It really depends on the situation. If your both self sufficient or one depends on the other...little things like that, but in most cases it would be in the best as long as Both of YOU know this isn't a time to play the field. Its to do soul searching and try to overcome your relationship problems.
2007-03-26 02:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not say why you are asking this question...It would depend on the reasons for contemplating divorce...I do believe that there are some reason to seek immediate divorce but as a rule separation is essential to a divorce...it gives you time apart to think about everything in a clearer aspect.....In the state I live in there are only 3 reason that you can get a divorce in 3 months and the rest of the reasons have a 12 month waiting period...so you are forced by the law to wait.....Good Luck ...
2007-03-26 02:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by foxygirl29303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why a divorce is wanted. If there is another person involved, it's usually best to just get it over with. If there are other issues, sometimes they can be worked out with a little space.
2007-03-26 02:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....its like moving in with someone before you get married. Its for you to test to see how final things really are. If you seperate and you find yourself wanting to get back together then you need to really try different avenues to work things out. But if you part and things get better....then you know thats the right way to go
2007-03-26 06:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes right down to it. Separation is only a form of punishment that the wounded partner inflicts upon the other. I feel that when a couple separates it causes a whole new ring of relationship problems. One is, fear of being kicked out again. The one who gets kicked out generally ends up with huge resentments. My ex left me when I was 4 months pregnant with our first child. Though it only lasted 6 days. I never forgave him for it.
The motto is to fix not add to! LOL
2007-03-26 02:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce should be the last resort to ending a marriage, there are a lot of other ways to resolve a conflict. I suggest counseling first.
2007-03-26 02:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we were legally sperated for a year before our divorce came through. something to do with some law and time line. divorces dont happen over night
2007-03-26 02:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That way you can seek other resolutions before you make it final. While seperated try Marriage counseling.
2007-03-26 02:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by krazyyybiotchh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes but not for too long.
if it will end up by divorce then go ahead and let every body start a new life
2007-03-26 02:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by stranger 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to be separated for a year before you can get a legal divorce (in austtalia anyway)
2007-03-26 02:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋