I don't feel like dating another guy that is afraid of marriage. I don't like being 'led on'. What is the best way to handle this kind of a talk with anyone I may date in the future? I don't want to sound scary. I just am sick of people who are 'afraid' of being commited.
2007-03-26 01:55:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi fawne,
Many Males are selfish today.
They enact as if they are not ready to commite,its not you whose scaring them,they are a wuss.
Many of them just want to have a good time and lie about that they would like to commite,so gotta orbit yourself like the 4 monkeys do,which is worldly renowned.
See everything you like and display nothing to him
Say nothing to him and be mysterious till he bends on his knees.
Hear Lies and be the superwoman who is prepared to over throw liars
Lots of sex with whomever you desire but portray he is the Only one when he is not commited.
Good luck!!
Sorry to say Men are confused creatures on this planet,they want alot and all they think is for themselves.
2007-03-26 02:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it might not be that they are afraid to commit, but that these men simply don't like you as much as you wish.
I never had this problem, in fact, my entire relationship was a pleasant suprise that happened when I wasn't looking, wasn't interested and marriage? Yea, right!
Now, my partner, was dating this woman before and while he got with me, but it wasn't serious since it was only like a 2 or 3 month thing, but she went crazy when he dumped her saying she thought he was 'the one' and all kinds of garbage. It was highly amusing at the time, but do try not to get too serious too fast. Perhaps this is your problem?
2007-03-26 09:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the point is that you are picking people who want a long term relationship because they only want to date for a while and move on some times your standards might be too high such as he has to be older than you or he has to make a certain income or he has to be big and many more remember every human being has some flaws no body is perfect so you will find a perfect guy so you have to look beyond the looks and the physical strength and may be i agree with the previous answer their can be lots of reasons so keep on trying
2007-03-26 09:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like your attitude! LOL
I think the reason that men don't want to commit much is. There is this thing called the Internet. And they found so much free sex on here that they can have sex every night with a different woman. They love it, even though it's fake sex! As Rosy Palmer is a better friend to them than the real thing! Ever heard of a cam or hand arguing with its self?
2007-03-26 09:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
By being led on, do they say that "one day we will marry"? Or are you spreading your legs with hopes that it will lead to marriage. I think the problem is not with them, but with you. Know what your getting into, and don't assume that what you want is what the guy wants. Ask up front questions. Guys don't understand riddles or puzzling questions or statements.
2007-03-26 09:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If its meant to be it may just pop out of the air one day. This isn't something you can force on and live happily ever after. There are lots of reactions which have to occur of the magic moment, don't push it.
2007-03-26 09:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is sacred and for the record, dating is so you can find what you are looking for.
Therefore, not EVERY GUY you date is going to marry you, just the ONE that is meant for you.
You have to date all the no's to get to the one who is going to make you say "yes."
2007-03-26 09:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by elidet_reyes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you so desperate to marry? It's not "fear," it's common sense. Marriage sucks. How many women would get married if they had a pre-nup that let the guy walk away free if she gets fat or cuts back on sex?
2007-03-26 09:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They just aren't mature enough to realize how wonderful marriage with the right woman can be, and how great it is to have their own family.
2007-03-26 13:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible the problem is you instead of all of them? Maybe something in your personality scares them.
Fear of marriage is healthy. It's a very serious life decision that shouldn't be entered into lightly.
2007-03-26 08:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋