He hasn't said anything incriminating yet. Should I be alarmed that something more will occur?
2007-03-26 01:47:55 · 17 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doesn't know that I know that he contacts her sometimes.
2007-03-26 02:06:56 · update #1
No they don't have any kids together. They only dated for a short time.
2007-03-26 02:23:09 · update #2
What a slap in the face, for you.
I'd pay attention to this matter.
Note:
I'm not listening to the conversation...it could be an innocent friendship.
Talk with him about it.
EDIT:
I'd talk with her also. (nicely)
If she refuses to speak with you......beware.
EDIT:
He's sneaking calls to her?
Well, in that case.....do what ya gotta do.
Disregard the "nice" thing.
2007-03-26 01:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how much you trust your husband. Really depends on how it ended, were kids invloved and all that. I wouldn't be alarmed at all but I would talk to him about it and ask why he feels a need to see how she is. I don't say he'd be very thrilled if you were in contact with an ex.
2007-03-26 08:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally would be upset. What business does he have with her now that he has you? On the contrary, if you trust him and you know that he won't go astray, then it's up to you to see if it's a problem or not. We are all different in what we will and will not tolerate. I for one, don't think it's a good idea and secondly, I would be alarmed. You may trust your husband, but do you trust her?
2007-03-26 08:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if they left on good terms. There friends, they have a past which can't be erased. I wouldn't be too worried but I would let your husband know that it is a concern. Maybe the three of you could go out for a drink,lol.
2007-03-26 09:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the kind of relationship you have with him. if yall are open and honest and have a lot of trust, you probably dont have anything to worry about. just the fact that shes his ex will probably always bug you, but it doesnt mean he is going to do anything to hurt you. why does he keep in contact with her? is he holding onto the past, or were they that good of friends? go with your gut... you know him better than anyone else. dont let other people freak you out!
2007-03-26 08:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by crystal k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how their relationship ended, they may still consider each other friends. I hate to sound so cliche, but give your husband the benefit of the doubt. He is YOUR husband after all, not hers! Trust his judgement and be confident is his decisions until you have reason not to...this is the man you decided to spend the rest of your life with!
2007-03-26 08:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by pjgdreams 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well thats always a bad idea to associate with your ex.Unless kids are involved.If it were me.I would not allow it.When my girl and I first went out she had tons of men that were friends and I had several women friends.We both agreed to give them up when we got together.
It is only the right thing to do.They should have nothing to talk about if there aint no kids.
2007-03-26 08:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its not good if he is contacting her. He should be concerned about how your doing rather than his ex. I would ask him why he wants to stay in touch with her and why hes bothered about her.
2007-03-26 08:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would express your feelings on it , and keep an eye out , dont trust the ex as far as you can throw her , but dont let it effect you to much , trust your gut on it though
2007-03-26 08:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by DSV 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is being honest about it and letting you know about his friendship then maybe you just need to trust him.
If it is becoming a real issue for you then maybe you should discuss your feelings with him.
2007-03-26 08:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋