i only found out last december that i have a sister, i am still confused and have mixed feelings until now, i dont know if i'll be angry or what, please help me to recover in this situation i am still really confused
2007-03-26 01:32:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should try to Love your sister unconditionally. I am not sure what your issue is but if it is with the parental figure/s I would have to stress that every person on this earth does the very best they can. Even when we make bad, poor decisions we are usually doing the best we can at the time. So although it is easy to have mixed feelings about the situation keep in mind that not one thing was done or not done to confuse or hurt you. Just a human being being human. Right, wrong, good, bad or ugly we should be able to depend on our family for unconditional love and if you can find that early in life you will be as ahead of the game as you can be.
Hope that helps. Hope you find something positive in this situation and experience.
2007-03-26 01:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by damommyxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you might be upset and hurt that you never knew before but look at the bright side...besides your friends now you have someone you can talk to and relate to. It will take some time to get used to one another but I believe sooner than later you will be unseperable...
Just take it one day at a time. You probably have some questions and you should really ask your family to get some closure.
2007-03-26 01:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by krazyyybiotchh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels the same way. dont transcend your anger towards her. im sure she is wondering where her sibling is as well. if you dont feel comfortable meeting in person why not talk online or over the phone. you may find out you need each other more than you think!
2007-03-26 01:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be angry, be happy that you have a sibling. Try to get to spend time with her and get to know her... you never know, she prob feels the same way if she didnt know about you..
2007-03-26 01:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be sad, everyone is sent in your life for a reason.
2007-03-26 01:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by mzvirgo19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋