he loves me but he says i make him unhappy i love him so much if letting go means him being happy then should i?
2007-03-26 01:11:00 · 7 answers · asked by flowersOFblood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you answered your own question, just let him go.
2007-03-26 01:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing people should understand is that true love is unconditional, you want them to be happy and you want what's best for them, not matter what. If you really love him like you say and he tells you that YOU make him unhappy, then let him go. That's gotta be painful for him to say especially if he loves you too. Maybe at this time an intimate relationship w/ him isn't best. Respect his wishes and let him know that you still love him and want him happy. Let him know that this is painful for you, but one thing about life, nothing is fair!! Let him know that you are letting him go because you do love him and want to see him happy. Good Luck.
2007-03-26 08:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very Christian.
Before you let his go, find out why he says you make him unhappy. If you really love him, I cannot see that you can really make him unhappy. Maybe he has other expectations. Discuss it with him and see if you can find a way.
If he is definite, than, love him or not, you must let him go.
2007-03-26 08:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he love if you make him unhappy maybe he is confused.
Have you heard the saying, " If you love something set it free, it comes back it's yours. If it doesn't it never was."
2007-03-26 08:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that behind his words .... must be something else.
how can you make him unhappy if he loves you ?????????
let him go, or ask him to explain to you what he really wont.
i think that this is just an excuse for leave you...
good luck.
2007-03-26 08:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , dont fight against someone who doesnt want to commit fully for a relationship together , a relationship can only be rewarding if both can commit together , sorry but you must let him go.
2007-03-26 08:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....
u make him unhappy ? leave him !!
2007-03-26 08:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋