She got mad because I was with a girl, so she calls her ex just to get me back. She tells her son if he sees me to tell me that her ex is coming around again. Thats her excuse but she has been wanting to talk to him again. Why would she tell me that then? Im pretty much with her if her ex isnt around and I am confused. We were still having sex until I told her how I saw things. Instead she turned it on me and said I was at fault. I really care about her. But I dont want to be used like tjat. I know its the sex that keeps us together. We been through too much. I think she wants to be with her ex and have me on the side. Hell no. She also tried so hard to hide she was talking to her ex. She told me that she was going to stop talking to both so she could see what it is she really wants. He came by and knew I was there so he said for us to have a nice life. I was going to leave but she asked me to stay. The next day he was there. Why tell me all that? Im playin myself
2007-03-26 01:03:59 · 9 answers · asked by newport 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you kidding me????
Get your life in order.
Firstly, sex is to be shared with someone you are committed to.....like....in...MARRIAGE.
Secondly, this girl isn't worth anything if she is whoring about, PLUS she has her kid involved with spreading lies. She shouldn't even involve her kid in her psychotic relationships anyway, let alone bringing all sorts of men around the child. What kind of example is that for the kid?
Plus, whatever birth control methods you are using (please, gawd, tell me you are using condoms) aren't fool proof. Even condoms break. Are you willing to share a child with this skank or a disease?
You are ruining your life. Get out now. Take several months to pull yourself together, then if you are ready, find a nice girl to date.
geez
2007-03-26 01:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her ex is still in the picture you have a problem.. Let her decide since you care for her . Maybe she just wants him gone for good so she can start a life w/ you. Think positive! She has a child w/ him so there will be some times he'll be in the picture but they should not be alone. If she carrys on w/ the relationship then you need to let go but 1st find out clearly , what they have. Be adult about it .She may care the same way about you as you do her.Two people that care about each other don't use each other. Personally I wouldn't want a relationship where sex was the only thing holding it together!!
2007-03-26 08:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by harlot j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that everyone involved is a cheater. Lacking in commitment and caring there can be no honest relationship here. You're all three lying to someone and the sad thing is that there is a child involved. Do yourself and that innocent child a favor and move on you are unworthy and so is she. That poor kid needs a far more stable environment.
2007-03-26 08:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself "shes playin you". why should she have her cakes and eat it to? she's keeping you on the side incase her back up relationship with her ex doesnt work out. which is wrong! cut your emotional ties. you said its just sex, so it shouldnt be too hard to walk away from all that. shes not a good person bc shes selfish about keeping herself happy and couldnt careless in the end about you. move on, she has no soul!
2007-03-26 08:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship built on sex can not last.Tell her either she stops seeing her ex or you part
2007-03-26 08:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...... you need to Tell her how you feel about her ex- and tell her that if she doesn't change her attitude you are going to live her, there are plenty of nice gals out there!! who can make you happy , don't be too nice...Gud Luck.
2007-03-26 09:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on she cheats once she will do it again cut your losses u will meet someone who will b real with u.good luck
2007-03-26 08:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by paultoledo34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on...too much frustration here
2007-03-26 08:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it! hell no!!!
2007-03-26 08:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋