I am assuming that if the only way a person can get mad at you is by blowing up, cursing, getting in your face, and/or kicking or breaking something, then this is an Anger Management issue that needs to be dealt with.
2007-03-26 01:02:21 · 9 answers · asked by Tabatha 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well now here is a sure cure
Get a video camera set it up with out the person s knowledge
of it , and record them for a few days , and then after
you have recorded them , fix a nice dinner and make the
room as inviting and comfortable as you can
and then say i have something id relay like you to watch
and after they see them self's or should i say , see the type
of person they become at times, and you express how it
bothers you to see them self's like that, I'm sure they will
try their best to handle things better. And remember you can
all ways play back the video for them if it starts up again
and after they no longer have the anger monkeys on
on their back they will then see how much you truly cared.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 01:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by RONBO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an older brother I know that you need to stop considering everything a contest. It's not about winning. So what if he is wrong? What makes you so sure your right? Why do you let it get to fisticuffs? And you do attack him, by defending your attacking. If you took it you would be a victim and your parent or whoever will side against him. The thing is. It's all about perspective. I swear my brother is always wrong. He swears I am always wrong. ******* accept it, you'll discover that you'll get along better.
2016-03-17 02:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nedra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them the hole they left in the wall the next morning after they calm down. Or the bruises on your body (seek help for physical or extreme mental abuse so it has been reported on paper). They do have calm moments, unless drugs are involved, and need to be dealt with as you would a puppy you had to housebreak. Rub their noses in the damage they did. Sounds harsh but so is their damn anger!! @8-)
2007-03-26 01:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't... when someone is angry you can never convince someone unless they see it themselves... they can't hear you... just let him vent... let him get it all out... just listen... let the person see that you are there... then when he is tired ask why is he angry.... then you will see why and resolve the thing not the person... he just doesn't know how to express himself better and get what he wants... you know kids do this... adults just became overgrown kids... but not all mature enough... he is one... see him as a kid and you would understand what he is going through... and find the way to solve it...
2007-03-26 01:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you like this he might consider getting counselling when you leave and he realises he behaviour is affecting his live.
You know you have a problem with someone or something when it affects your life.
2007-03-26 01:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Record them and play it back.
2007-03-26 01:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by McQ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to make them understand the true meaning of forbearance
2007-03-26 01:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by hari prasad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a camcorder and record yourself cheating on your boyfriend.
2007-03-26 01:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a camcorder.
2007-03-26 01:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by souternman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋