one of my colleague at work, I called him up we date for 2 days, we later realise that we both cant work out, now he is boasting and telling all our colleques wat went on between the both of us and showing them the text messasges we both send to each other. am very shy going to work I dont know wat to do. cos everyone is looking at like a cheap girl. so i dont want to be defeated i decide to text him to tell him it was a planned work btw me & my friends i told him i was been given £50 to do dat 4 him, am confused have i done the right thing.
2007-03-26 00:43:17 · 11 answers · asked by Sammie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your reaction was wrong. Maybe THIS is the mistake you have done and not dating this man for 2 days. It is natural exchanging mails with someone you date, writing personal things. The fact that he shows them in the office, describes HIS personality and consider yourself lucky you were not involved deeply with this gentleman.
Your reaction was wrong because it shows you like a woman who likes to play such games for money. That, was a mistake.
Now, just ignore the whole matter and don't think that others see you as cheap, because it is sure that anyone in your position would exchange the same texts! People criticize very very easily things that do not refer on them. Ignore them.
Nevertheless, you did not commit a crime!!..
2007-03-26 00:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both immature where relationships are concerned
move on at least people know you are a full blooded women
they will soon forget about you two when some other gossip comes up
just say hello to him when others are around to show you are not embarrassed by what you have done
they were private not meant for others to read, learn by your mistake
2007-03-26 08:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by D D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, don't let the bigheaded blusterer get you down, you fight back and the bet idea was a good one, make sure that everyone knows that he had no chance of taking it further cause you were only bet £ 50 to date him and £ 500 to sleep with him but you turned down that bet as you wouldn't do it for £ 5 Mill
2007-03-28 00:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just behave normal. Pretend as if nothing has happened and only to react to people who really come to ask you anything. Do not feel cheap and hold your head high. You have not done anything wrong. These things do happen and you will come out successfully.
2007-03-26 08:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by tnkumar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw that jerk out.
Dont be afraid.Face the problem confidently.Start telling ur friends that u played a prank wid him,u fooled u n that duffer is enjoying dat too.
2007-03-26 08:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Fun Loving Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play with fire you get burnt! You are just fuelling for him to react and do something in return stop playing games as it will only hurt you in the end. Only you and him really knows what happened and people shouldn't take any notice of gossip they will be talking about something else next week
2007-03-26 07:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by phillippa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yep , you did the right thing , i thought this stuff didnt happen anymore , dont try and stick up for yourself unless people talk directly to you , it is pretty low of this person to do this , and I hope he gets a venerial disease (text that to his mates)
2007-03-26 07:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah if he's gonna do that to you then you can go and make him look like a fool esp if its making it hard for you at work.
2007-03-26 07:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't have sex with him then he is the one who is the jerk. If you did have sex with him then maybe you are cheap. He still had no right to tell people.
2007-03-26 08:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lou 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
forget that fool and move on. Good luck.
2007-03-26 07:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by mark t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋