i need help, i used to be a loud and obnoxios kid was i was younger, i was never as quiet as i am now. In 7th grade i changed from a city school district (where there are fights and drugs) to a suburban district. over the years the people i hung around were quiet and i became a queit punk. But when i attended school in the ghetto, i would normally strangle somebody who talked about me. people tell me to be myself, but i lost contact with my normal loud self and feel akward if i try to be that way (being loud), but i dont like being queit and want to have fun. ex. the kids i used to hang with in the city dont even talk to me and say i have become very quiet can someone tell me what i should do?
2007-03-26 00:34:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop being a follower and start being a leader....in your own life that is. It's not wrong to be loud if the situation calls for it, but obnoxious behaviour is wrong 24/7. My parents used to ask me "If your friends jump off a bridge, are you going to do it too?". It's time you started asking yourself the same thing. Just because your friends are loud, doesn't mean you have to be, same thing with the quietness. And I agree, being yourself is always best.
2007-03-26 00:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be loud, only friendly. You have to learn to be a friend in order to have friends. You have to be learnt to just speak, and make your on jokes that people can laugh at, if they don't find it funny don't be scared to be criticized. Unfortunately for those who lead, we have to pay a leaders price in life and that is knowing that you wont always be like for who you are and what you believe and stand for. This is the only way you will find your crowd.
Be Good Now...
2007-03-26 00:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by His Majesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a BAD person is not someone you want to be with or be like...or be around!! do good things and be yourself...you do not need to act like anyone else or do what anyone else whats you to do....being loud isn't how you want to be if you want good people around you,,no one likes a big mouth...
2007-03-26 00:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like the title says , you need to be yourself , the stage you are in is a chapter to who you are at this stage , you need to get your feet on the ground , try and get used to where you are at ,and then when you are comfortable enough to get you feelers out , you will then be as you were but with a different outlook , and plan , dont stress , you are basically just sussing out your new environment , i believe this problem is temporary
2007-03-26 00:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your real self is not someone you'd like to go back to!
2007-03-26 00:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋