My Ex is telling people that she is sending my emails to Yahoo abuse because she has told me over and over not to email her. I haven't emailed her in a while and when I did, it wasn't harrassing emails or threatening emails. If she had forwarded my emails to Yahoo abuse, wouldn't yahoo or whomever she sent them to write me to tell me not to contact her anymore? Has anyone else had this similar situation? She's also telling people that she has contacted the police and the FBI about me and that she has had to put a tap on her phone because whatever calls she's getting she claims it's me. I haven't called the woman in over 4 months. Wouldn't someone have contacted ME by now if she did this? She's telling friends and people I'm stalking her. How can I stop this? This is my name she's pulling through the mud. Why is she doing this?
2007-03-26 00:07:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
She seems a bit bitter there. Who left whom?
Anyway, you would have received an email from Yahoo re: the abuse already if she had forwarded them BUT don't email her under any circumstances. Yahoo cannot tell you to do that, all they would do is suggest that she block your email, if there had been a pattern of abusive emails they would be forwarded to law enforcement.
Block her email address Don't ask her to stop on your own because she can turn that around on you.
One of the things you can do is speak with an attorney to see if the courts would grant a request for a temporary restraining order against her. Cite what she had said and point out that it appears that YOU are being stalked in the event she is attacked because she is telling people you are stalking her. Since stalking is a felony, you need to protect yourself.
Also, talk to him about a possible slander suit. The threat of a lawsuit might put a stop to this harrassment because you are the one being stalked.
Women can be extremely vindictive, especially if it was not her idea to end the relationship.
Also bear this in mind, if you get any peace overtures from her, Don't call her back, Don't email her, Don't go over. Send anything from her to your attorney
2007-03-26 00:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by thequeenreigns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must be blonde!!! If she didn't want emails from you rather than going around telling that why didn't she do the simple thing and just block your mails???
As for a tap on the phone, she has to get a court order to have that done, if you aren't calling her then she has no proof that its you that is calling so nothing can be done so no worries over that one.
To ones that tell you all this "stuff", just say well if she had not been this crazy woman she wouldn't be an "ex" would she then go on to another topic and forget it....THAT will stop her being able to get to you thru friends. The more you talk over all this and keep it going the more its talked about, so best not to discuss it with so called friends for more than likely its getting back to her and she knows she is getting attention.
Of course, if she is out really telling slander things about you its your option to charge her with slander or harrassment also.
2007-03-26 07:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just stop emailing her completely? As in 100% stop, not just every once in a while but stop. Yahoo can suspend your account - which in itself is no big deal but you could be charged with harassment by the authorities.
2007-03-26 07:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by dude0795 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might take a while for abuse to cancel your account. I'm sure they'll investigate the case first.
Which part of "don't email me again" didn't you understand?
2007-03-26 08:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Yak Rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably jealous or something.but dont worry dude just stay calm.ok.it will all work out (at least i think it will
2007-03-26 07:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋