why does a man get mad at his wife for having an affair which I think is appropriate. however a woman will usually get mad at the woman if he cheats on her that doesn't seem appropriate?
I realize they both cheated and they both could have said they had no b/f g/f therefore tricking the other but get mad at the one cheating on you not the one they are cheating with?
or is that wrong and why?
2007-03-26 00:04:38 · 13 answers · asked by Bear_Polaroid 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
women tend to feel jealousy even towards people we like and if it is someone that your man has cheated with it gets ugly. It is also easier to hate the person that you don't have to live with and carry on with. In my opinion the women is at fault just as much as the man because if she would have had any standards or morals about her she would have known enough about the man to know he was married.
I am pretty sure however that if I cheated my husband would shoot me and the other man.
2007-03-26 01:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Trisha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my view, after getting married both man and woman should not have an affair with any oneelse, cheating not only other but also creating a problem for themselves.
2007-03-26 00:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 22:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by dusik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad at the person who did the cheating. The other could have not even known they were attached. Even if the other were flirting and being promiscuous... The cheater should have self control. Definitely the cheaters fault: Male or Female....
2007-03-26 00:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Life is great! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't want to accept that their man is responsible because they don't want to leave him. it is easier to place the blame on the other woman, so they can forgive and move on. They don't want to think their man could actually choose to cheat, they want to believe he was tricked into it by some slu*. It's stupid I agree. It takes two and HE'S the one that promised to be faithful.
2007-03-26 00:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the beginnings of the family unit.
The man is angry at the wife because not he no longer knows if his children are his.
The woman gets mad at the other woman because she fears the loss of her provider
2007-03-26 00:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it should be the spouse the person should be angry with.
However, with women, I think it can be just such a letdown that another woman betrayed a woman - kind of wrecked that old feminist code.
2007-03-26 06:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat at all, cause your ganna lose 2 girls or guys at the same time, and that's 2 people of your future.
2007-03-26 00:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband cheated I would blame him.The person he is cheating with didn't make vows to me.However,if he cheated with someone who knew both of us,and that we were married,they would both be at fault.And,if he cheated with someone who knew he was married,but didn't know me,I'd still be pissed,but realistically she wouldn't owe me any loyalty-he would.
And i am also pretty sure that if i cheated my husband would be pretty cranky-not just at me,but also the guy-no matter if the guy knew i was married,or not,or knew both of us!!
2007-03-26 01:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People tend to blame the "other woman/man" because it's easy to hate them. They don't have to forgive and carry on with them.
2007-03-26 00:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋