how to communicate with a paranoid person especially when the person is violent and shouting?

Question

I want to ask about the condition of my mom. My mom is sick of schizoprenia paranoid. It started the year 1997, the condition of my mom at the present were difficult. I tried to bring her at psychiatric year 2003 to 2004 but did not work. Everything started when my parents always quarell. my mom start being a suspicious that my father is doing something like having a third party even if not proven. every night she dreaming that my father is having affair with someone, when she wake up, she woke up also my father and tell she had dream. my father did not give importance since its only a dream that my mom insisting that my father has a another girl. when my father say that its only a dream, my mother will say "admit the truth you have another one, my dad said that what will I admit theres no proof and that small thing become bigger and bigger. My mother now condition is difficult. she shout all the time, she dont have complete sleep during night. she always quarrel my father.

Answer 1

Perhaps take her out for walks ? to the park lands away from her environment...on a holiday ? The main thing is to keep communicating . If too difficult ask her when she can talk about things in general. How is your father coping ? Get his help if possible. Maybe she needs to live away from him for awhile. You can only do so much but keep trying perhaps with more help your father's, the doctor's ,someone else of importance hopefully your caring will be of benefit but eventually you have to consider your own life as well.....

Answer 2

Your mom obviously needs help. Medication can help if it is the correct type and dosage. Get some help from a health professional. When communicating, speak calmly and slowly but normally and do not allow her to see she got a reaction out of you. Do not challenge, but just accept what she has to say, and keep neutral. MAy God bless you and your mother.

Answer 3

Your dad is not helping the situation even to me he sounds guilty.If he says he won't admit guilt unless you can prove it then he is guilty.
If your mum really has schizoprenia then you will have to give her lots of lean way.

Answer 4

When she starts getin loud and violent smack her and tell her to shut the f$ck up.