why do all the boys at my school say im ugly?

Question

Hello I'm 14 and all the boys at my school tell me im ugly they are like when they walk past me ' Amanda is ugly '.
only the freaks fancy me when my friends say im really pretty ?
im confused help me please ..

Answer 1

Hey Amanda!!!
Ya know, most boy's at our age <14> are like that, dont you worry yourself, the boys who call you ugly are more than likely , to fancy you, but too scared to show their real emotions with you
(its a male thing) when you get to collage, or uni, or whereever your going after school, you will be treated just ow you want to be treated, the boys you see will be men at that time, and they will more than likely want to ask you out,
trust me
it all changes around , at that time
the popular bitches, get shown for who they are, and they wont be popular anymore your friends might not be your friends anymore, becase their our thousands of cool individulas comming from different school, that you will get along with
dont worry sweety , most teenage years happen like this

and think of it this way

they'll either end up becomming men and being your Boyfriend

or lifting boxes with 15 children with diffferent last name lol

xxxxx
take care luvvey .. and dont be so hard on yourself
i've read your other questions, and its all negatvity

just tell yourself
"you are beautifull" every morning and then believe it or not, you will grow self confidence and people will notice a change in you


xxxxxx hehe
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 2

Trust Me On This It's A Stupid Boy Thing
Teenage Boy's Say These Things When You Are Too Pretty For Them
It's Their Way Of Justifying Not Havin A Chance With You
You Must Believe In Yourself Enough To Rise Above Then Cos Frankly They Are Just Idiotic Kids

Answer 3

Hello Amanda!!! My best advice is what do you think about yourself? Do you feel pretty inside and out? I want you to keep those questions in mind when you go to school.
And ignore all the immateur boys. Boys will be boys all the time. Even men. Thats very typical. try not to worry about what people think of you. Just hang out with people who don't say negative comments. Be confident about your self. Maybe the boys who bother you, probably think your pretty but have a strange way of showing it. Who knows? just keep your distance from them, and keep a smile on your face, and gain a good self-esteem. Try to focus on your school work, and your studies. Stuff like that can hold you back, and take your focus of school work. And if the teasing gets out of hand, then thats when you can stand up to them, and tell them how you feel. But don't feed back. You show people your weakness they'll keep bothering you. So Amanda... Stay strong, and stand tall. Okay, have a nice day, good bye!!! :)

Answer 4

They are just mean. Someone mature wouldn't say that in order to be mean but as an opinion if you were to ask for it. If it was even true. God made you look the way you do for the most part, I think that if he thought you looked ugly he wouldn't have made you look that way. Honestly looks don't matter for the most part. Looking good makes you feel good I understand that. Maybe try a different fashion sense and see if it works. Just find something that you like that is modest at the same time because you definitely don't want them wanting you for the wrong reasons. If you like the way you look and your friends are honest people and they say you look good then it doesn't matter. All that matters is that you like the way you look.

Answer 5

First things first...there is no way to avoid it but middle and high school are socially the most crappiest time in your life (well unless your one of the more popular kids). Hang in there, EVERYTHING gets better once you get out of there.

Your situation sounded like mine. When I was younger, none of the boys found me attractive but a few of my friends said I was pretty. As I got older and became more comfortable with myself...and changed my style more towards "main stream beauty"....I have a lot of guys asking me out. Main stream beauty being: wearing makeup, stylish clothing, nice hair cut. Even some boys that I use to go to school with (I'm 27 now) ask me out!

High and middle school is a sh**ty experience, you'll have to get past it. You are probably one of the cliche "ugly ducklings." I was too, but remember, be happy with yourself. As you get older, you will learn that boys find confident girls attractive. You'll also learn that shallow vain boys only want girls for the sake of f*cking. Find and keep good boys in your life...they are out there :)

Answer 6

They are just hating!

Check the boys doing this, chances are: they are either bullies or they are the real ugly ones!!! Or they are scared of asking you out! Or you are doing better than them academically!!

Oh, I had some stupid bullies tell me I was ugly with a big butt while growing up, and I believed them!!

I am the same pretty big-butt girl that guys are dying over to date these days! Go figure!!!

Keep ya head up high dear, you are pretty! And beauty is ion the eye of the beholder! The silly blind ones are looking! ;)

Answer 7

Anytime during puberty you can't count on any of your peers to know what they are talking about. They may be right about you, they may be wrong, but they are just as confused about their lives as you are about yours and, in the end, that only takes away the validity of their statements against you.

Also, opinions are a tricky thing. On the one hand everyone has crappy opinions but on the other if you ignore all opinions you limit your chances of finding honest conclusions about yourself. All it takes is some listening and enough common sense to know the truth from the fiction.

Answer 8

Typical boy thing
i am your age and most boys annoy girls " your ugly " etc. when they fancy them
don't take any of it seriously lol the ones that are nice to you probably don't fancy you and the ones that say you are ugly most likely do

Answer 9

relax and ignore them.
There's a BUNCH of reasons they could be saying that. Maybe they like you, maybe they're as*holes...who knows.
You don't need to worry about them. I know it's hard not to at your age, but just relax and be happy with the friends you have and concentrate on your school work as best you can.

Good Luck Kiddo!

Answer 10

Those guys are just immature and childish. When they say things like that just reply "Same goes for you too" and don't look upset just look at them like you are pitying them. You should only listen to those people closest to you like your friends. They know the real you.