I alway image myself a female, and also image sex with man, and have sex excitement, In my early year, I start to wanted to be beautiful like other girls, and alway wear female clothes, am I a transsexual?
But I alway heard that transsexual haven't sex excitement, so am I just a crossdresser ?
Sometime I hate being male very much, but sometime I seem no problem, and also sometime when I see other girls (or just female), I will very unhappy and cry, and ask myself why I'm not a woman, but on the other hand, I like to see other female, so I alway think I'm so abnormal and very unhappy, how can I be happy?
2007-03-24 22:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by Karen 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no one can tell you are a transsexual it is something you have to feel
and before you run off and start a radical change i vote you read up on the subject a bit and ask the question of your self
who am i ?
where do i wish i was in life ?
and five years from now who am i?
these are two of a few online test you can get answers from
http://transsexual.org/TEST0.html
http://community.sparknotes.com/gender/
and some other sites that may help you research what it is you may be all these sites have links to other sites and can be a good start to finding out how to become the person you want to become
http://transsexual.org/
http://www.gendercentre.org.au/mtf_links.htm
http://www.tsroadmap.com/
http://www.tgfolk.net/sites/satsg/hrt.html
http://www.annelawrence.com/twr/
yes i am a m2f pre op transsexual and if you need to talk to some one i might be able to help if you want to
2007-03-25 01:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by zara3 goodie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one else can say but you. Most, if not all transsexuals do have sexual excitment, the idea that they don't is a myth. What you need to do is some real soul searching and decide what would make you happier, being male or female. Liking women doesn't mean your not a transsexual, about 40% of transsexuals are lesbians, sexual orientation has nothing to do with gender identity. Try talking to a gender therapist and they will help you figure out not only what you want to do with your life in regards to your gender issues, but how to achieve your goals. If you would like someone to talk to who is going through the process right now, feel free to IM or e-mail me.
2007-03-25 08:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by elvishbard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A transsexual is a person who has had a sex operation from male to female or female to male. So, if you haven't had an operation, than no, you're not a transsexual. However, you would be considered a transvestite for having desires to wear women's clothing...etc. Transvestite hone! I hope I helped your confustion! Also, the best advice I can give you is to be yourself or you'll never be happy. Good luck!
2007-03-25 05:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by sugarbear 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your difficulty is coming from the fact that you are trying to label youself. Some people say that nobody should label themselves based on their gender or sexual attraction...just be who you are and be with whoever attracts you! Everyone is unique.
Movie recommendation: Hedwig and the Angry Inch. I think this movie may give you a lot of food for thought, the main character struggles with similar identity problems to yours. It is sad but very beautiful, and has a mythological aspect that explains why your inner gender doesn´t always match your outside.
2007-03-25 05:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anna H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still have your bits, you are a Tranvestite. Just enjoy your femme side and dress all the time.
2007-03-25 08:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by scareymiss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋