My horoscope is Leo, and that's why I'm so fiery & romantic.
But the problem is my girl who will be my fiance after 2 monthes is not like that at all, she's Capricorn, not such fiery & romantic as me.
She's somehow practical, but I know she really likes me & needs me.
I'm afraid that after marriage the connections between us would be not satisfied., it's about how each of us is looking to life, love & relations.
It's not a big problem for her to be away for 1 ot 2 weeks, but it's a huge problem for me to be away from her for 1 or 2 days.
She's accepting me as her husband, and she just likes me, admires my personality, and considers me as the only friend she has, and she's looking forward for us to be good couple.
But I still doubt that my nature is so different, the same difference between LEO & CAPRICORN in life style, love & relations.
I'm so afraid, she wants me, but our natures are different, she's not so cordial like me.
2007-03-24 22:24:02 · 12 answers · asked by hishamaladeeb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I personally feel it has more to do with her personality than her sign, and she is not going to change, so if you are going to be with her youll have to get used to it or find someone better suited for you. Good luck
2007-03-24 22:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I don't really believe in horosopes but if you do, and you have the right to your own opinion..... I think that it is great that you two are so different from each other! Imagine being with someone for the rest of your life that is exactly the same or similar as you! It would be dull and boring! Both of you are bringing great characteristics to the relationship and both of you can create a balance together! Don't worry about it, I think a relationship like that could be exciting and it will never lose its fire!
2007-03-25 05:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have to have the same goals, and aspirations in life to have a success full marriage. The bedroom is a vital ingredient for a successful marriage too. I would question why is she marrying me, it's not like she is buying a couch because it is more practical.
If she is marrying you because it is practical, I don't see a 1st anniversary. Especially if she doesn't love you, and only likes you. What are you a convenience to her? She doesn't make any sense, and neither do you. Get someone that can't bear to be away from you.
I have a feeling your gut is asking this question. You know yourself that this marriage will not work. Follow your gut feeling.
2007-03-25 06:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, please don't marry her if you are looking that hard for things that will cause your relationship to fail then you just don't want this lady. It would be totally unfair to proceed.
I might add that it would be real nice if you would just man up and shut up about the charts being the wrong way round etc. The fact is that for multiple reasons you don't feel she is the right woman for you and you need to accept that and take responsibility for your own feelings.
She may admire you now and find you all kinds of charming but that is because you're not being honest about your feelings. After you're married and when the fights start and eventually they do... you will start to tell her all those little things that annoy you. When you do she will rapidly become very unhappy and believe me you will not be the knight in shining armour when that happens.
It would be far kinder just to tell her you believe there is a very big mistake being made and move on without having to tell her how many supposed flaws she has in your eyes.
2007-03-25 05:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I are opposites in certain manners, but that's what balances us out. the important thing as well is that him and I have things in common.
if these are issues for you, they should probably be discussed with her, and if it's something you really decide you cannot live with, then I would cancel the engagement. After all, you have the rest of your life, and 1-2 months is not a merited amount of time to make a decision on the rest of your life! Sounds like it would be okay for you to take your time with this, court her and see how the relationship progresses before making any major decisions!
Perhaps you can inspire some passion in her! and perhaps not.
2007-03-25 05:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by **twin** 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should talk to her about it, normally when couples are so in love its hard to live even a day apart but with her you say its ok for her to be away for 1-2 weeks maybe you should think again about marriage. Have time to get to know her well before you go ahead with the marriage. Best of luck!
2007-03-25 05:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by wana help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously believe in compatibility based on Zodiac signs then nothing I tell you would make any difference. Good luck in finding the right girl under the right sign.
2007-03-25 05:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Inday 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Horoscope is crap. Don't waste your time reading them instead spend your time working on your relationship. There is nothing wrong with mix-and-match, give-and-take. Remember, she likes you for your personality but marries you for your character. So stop wasting time and get working on making the relationship lasts a life timel.
2007-03-25 05:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don`t marry her. If you feel that your personality is not match,then there is no reason for you to get maried to her and live unhappy.
Marriage is not the key to be happy.Take more time to discover your relationship and learn more about her...Don't get marry yet,you will regret it!
Good luck and i wish you all the best....
2007-03-25 05:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lyncy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same questions when i got married. And I should of listened to my gut feelings.
Here is a great book to read together.....
ARE YOU THE ONE FOR ME?
The fact that you aren't sure means you need to really think about this.
2007-03-25 05:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋