Hi,
Who of you have had a major life changing event happen to you? What was it? Was it a good or bad thing?
2007-03-24 22:22:57 · 6 answers · asked by kirsty m 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
just split with my gf a few months ago and now I'm in the middle of moving out of the 3 bed house which we both owned and into a 1 bed flat!!! a bad thing but also a good thing!!!
2007-03-24 22:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was a teenager I had a daughter and gave her up for adoption. After 36 years I finally found her. That should have been a good thing. At first I thought it was and all was well. We had our honeymoon period then she went about trying to ruin every relationship I have . She started with her brothers [ who I had much later when I was married. ] I raised them so she did and said some really bad things about them she tried to seduce my husband, she tried to put a wall between my best friend and I. I have had to cut off all contact with her. I am sorry she is so bitter. I did not get to choose the family she was raised by. Her father is no where to be found. I was young and when I met and married him I did not realize he was a con man and already married to other women. I have no idea who he is or where he is she thinks I am lying about that to keep her from meeting her rich famous father. I don't think he is either rich or famous !
2007-03-25 05:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...involved in two separate car crashes (I was the passenger in both, car got sent to junkyard) in one year, moved overseas to a new country the next year and lived through a major earthquake the year after.
The most traumatic of them all? I honestly don't know. Moving to a new country and surviving an earthquake tie for first place. Both had good and bad effects - going to a new country and making a new beginning, I forced myself to take risks and open up, to adapt to circumstance and change myself rather than bang my head uselessly against the wall. Cried a lot, in private. In the end, I lived through and got going. The earthquake - well, I learned to take things as they come, to make the best of my days since I never know what's going to happen next.
Hope I was informative.
2007-03-25 05:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by tigertrot1986 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've just put 'closure' on a issue that was bugging me for weeks, I had two close friends who turned their back on me when I needed them most, and I'll NEVER forgive them for that, they've been ignoring me for weeks, and I let it get to me, but NOW I realise that 'friends' like that aren't worth the effort, I'm a better person than that, and a little bit more 'grown up' than their stupid childish ways, and their silly giggling!
I have other friends, who I know that are there for me no matter what, and we don't have to live in each others pockets! I've got a wonderful hubby, who loves me, and 3 gorgeous kids!
Other than jealousy, I don't know why these girls set out to try and hurt me!
but, like I said, I've finally put 'closure' on it, and closed that chapter of my life, and I feel I can finally move on!!
2007-03-25 05:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Got a new job and hopefully will never have to come back to Saudi Arabia ever again.
2007-03-25 05:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by ANON 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have.
A little over 2 years ago. My father committed suicide. It wasn't such a good thing.
Thank you.
2007-03-25 11:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by sllikylloh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋