my lady might be knocked up again and i dont want no more babbies. i already got 3 babies to a few different chicks and i cant helpt hem financialy so they be on assistance. none of us has money so i think abortion be best. if she is pregnat how do i get that thing out of her?
2007-03-24 21:52:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
e837 i know i messed up. i need ansers not insults
2007-03-24 21:59:42 · update #1
i dont think this is fair. i dont have a say if it should be born but i should have to pay for it after she decides to have it? if she has it she just wants my money and this isnt fair i think
2007-03-24 22:06:01 · update #2
Listen very carfully...if you have sex, even with birth control, she can get pregnant. Therefore every time you have sex, you accept the chance that she can get pregnant and you accept responibility for caring for the unborn child.
Its her body she can do what she wants! If she wants to have it even though it has half of your crappy genes then she is the better person!
If you want to avoid this in future, get de-sexed like the dog you are.
2007-03-24 22:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is your problem if you don't want to get chewed out online then don't ask the question... You should be ashamed of your self wanting to get rid of a kid that is your response ability. If you don't want a kid use a dam condom. nothing in this whole world makes me madder is when I child get s murderd or hurt but to know that you want an abortion for a kid that you could get to know is freaking stupid..........
Dose your girlfriend want this baby??? You should be a part of your other kids life's before they give up and move on and become like you... I wonder what your mom would say about this not letting a child in this world and be who they want to be... I really hope that you give this baby a chance with life it would make you a better person...
2007-03-28 17:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should have used a condom. It is not up to you it is up to her. It is her body so bud out. Man up and quit having sex without a condom. A baby is a person, not an item. I hope she has a nice healthy baby without a loser like you in her life. If you were a real man you would support her and not be on here asking about abotions. I feel sick after reading such a self center post. God bless the baby and I am praying right now that she has nothing to do with such a loser. I hope you get help. Children are gifts from God, respect the fact that you are lucky enough to be blessed with one.
2007-03-24 22:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, the child you (may or may not have) created with her is the responsibility of both of you. You will need to realize that, while you may think abortion is best, she may not agree with you for any number of reasons.
Second: you need to start using some form of birth control if you are not already. Condoms are available just about anywhere (they don't cut down on sensation as much as you think), and the pill is available at almost any local health clinic for either little or no cost, and whatever the cost, it will be less than another child. However, no form of birth control is 100% effective.
Also, if you are worried about being able to afford another child, try cutting back on certain luxuries you have allowed yourself, such as cable, internet, etc. I know several people who have cut back on such things and have raised healthy children. (Possibly healthier than the parents who have told their children, "Go watch TV." because they told their kids to play outside.)
Lastly, please try working on your spelling and grammar. As a future English teacher, it makes me a slightly crazy seeing your botched form of the English language. It makes you seem uneducated, and while I am not saying that you are, it is the impression that your language gives others.
2007-03-24 23:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by mkbrocato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont plan on supporting kids, then dont have any. You think its an easy think for a woman to have an abortion, well it's not. I never scold people on here, but you are just a stupid coward. People like you belong in prison, and im sure you will probably make it there some day hopefully.
2007-03-24 21:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by e837 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's upto her. You can't force her to have an abortion. It's her baby so leave it alone.
It's your problem if you can't cough up the cash for the baby's happiness - get a better job.
Unfortunately, your opinion legally doesn't matter if you think 'abortion will be best' - it's what she thinks is best that matters.
Use a condom next time is all I say.
2007-03-25 00:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You low-life S.O.B. What the hell gives you the right to decide for her. To make a baby take TWO people. To decide that childs fate is NOt up to you. How DARE you be so selfish!!!
Perhaps you may like to decide to wear a condom before you go doing this. Better still get castrated and I'll volunteer to be the first to do it!
2007-03-24 22:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
damn babe, you are in deep **** here huh. well, i know it ain't fair but we woman always have the last say in these matters, i personally am not always agreeing on childseport because iknow there are sooooooooooo many woman out there taking advantage of the situation just to get your money they get knocked up. anyways, just try and stay calm talk to her, and convice her its best since you both can't afford it. go to a free clinic they can help you guys out ,
and babe, i know you ain't waitin on some extra advice here but please, either use a damn rubber next time or get your thing snapped, it ain't gonna make you less of a man, i would think it would make you a better one a sensible one with brains if you did. anyways, that's your call, good luck
2007-03-24 22:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by dutchcutie68 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I consider we will have to provide a danger for little one to be born. Human and animals alike.. nature have a solution to manipulate them (mainly for animals). I shouldn't have a puppy atm, however there are a host of stray cats in my intricate that aid to manipulate the rat populace (and lizard, they commonly consume them).
2016-09-05 15:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by bebber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pleaze no insults?? r u 4 reaL??..LOL..man u really gonna get DOGGED up in here by the girlz big time & i aint even gonna start..BTW.. both of u should have took precautions u condom & her the pill or sumthing silly girl....u shouls have protected urself coz dahhh guys dnt think fullSTOP..sheeshh
2007-03-24 22:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋