2007-03-24 21:39:27 · 19 answers · asked by Kevin Amrow 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
earn her trust and loyalty rest will come
2007-03-24 21:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, being the woman of your dreams is not what she wants out of life. No one wants to spend their life being seen as someone's accessory.
She is looking for the man of her dreams...she will want someone who will wake up every day wondering what they can do to make her life better. It's not that you have to run out and buy her jewelry every day, but it wouldn't hurt to make her coffee in the morning, help around the house, or just surprise her with flowers every so often for either no occasion at all or make up your own occasion.
If you just appreciate her, and become her ideal, she will get the idea.
2007-03-25 07:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself! If she doesn't start feeling that way then she probably isn't really the one for you. It can take time and a lot of time. Just hang in there but don't be too pushy or clingy because that could scare her away.
2007-03-25 23:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by ctjones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what she has to say. Support her dreams and beliefs. Share yours with her. Always remember that a relationship that lasts is based on mutuality as well as love.
2007-03-25 08:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
treat her like she is the woman of your dreams
2007-03-25 11:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by ragincajun1957 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make her feel that she's the one, you have to treat her in that way. If she is really the woman of your dreams, she'll respond to that and she'll treat you the same way.
2007-03-25 04:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by John M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find out what her love kanguage is and show it to her, there are five of them, 1. touch, 2. gift giving, 3. quality time, 4. and 5 I can't remember, you have a love language to, it would be one of the five, you could get the book, the five love languages, find out which one is hers and she will fell loved when you show it.
2007-03-25 10:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What if she's NOT the one? What if you later change your criteria for what the 'one' is?
If you do in fact change her feelings to be the one, that means that she wasn't the one originally and now only believes she is the one.
Good luck.
2007-03-25 04:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by annoyed_with_the_other_answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well show her that you are really in love with her share some things unique time with her and share her what you never share it with no one, and make sure she under stand.
2007-03-25 04:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by u'r friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well take her with you on a boat trip to the river and in the middle of the river ask her "Love me or Leave the Boat!".
2007-03-25 04:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find out what are her favorite things and give to her or surprise her with. small things are better. like what was your first romantic song or find out what was the first meal you two ate. or where you ate . My ex- girl liked coke and peanuts. She would put the peanuts in the coke. One morning I sneaked in her car and put them in her driver seat. she loved it. that kind of stuff the More little stuff the better.
2007-03-25 04:47:51 · answer #11 · answered by GUMBY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋