Why do you think relationships are hard?
I never realized it was hard before. I'm in my first long-term relationship with my boyfriend of over 13 months and we plan on getting married someday.
I think the reason why relationships are hard is because we are all different... and each have our own different characteristics and ways in handling situations. If we all handled everything the exact same way and had the exact same personality, it would be really easy... boring, but easy.
2007-03-24 21:31:30 · 20 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it is hard but with a great communication established you can overcome it . like me and my husband we differ in a lot of things but we communicate our feelings a lot so we avoid arguments
2007-03-24 21:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationship are hard because it takes alot work and trust. We all (well most) have been through some that we thought was right for us and in the end it didn't work out. So when we start something new we always remember the past and that stops us in our tracks to be able to function properly. We don't want to make the same mistakes twice, but sometimes it happens. It just like riding a bike for the first time, we fall but we keep tying. One of these days we will get it right, but when?
2007-03-25 04:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by koodie64 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are hard b/c you have to compromise. You need to be there for your partner when they are down in the dumps, and vice versa. What happens when you're both down? You should be able to lift each other from despair. What about if you have kids - you have to agree on how to discipline & teach them. What about where you will live, what about in-laws, what about money, what about friends? Those are major things you should agree about. Parents also need time away - a date night to reconnect. Can you see yourself with this person for the next 60 years? Great if you're already so similar! But sometimes those little differences become major annoyances! It takes a lot of work. Good luck to ya, hun!
2007-03-25 04:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by sweet pea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love and relationship is not the enjoyment, if you think it a matter of enjoyment, perhaps you have taken it wronghly. Relationship gives responsibility you to others which you would have to honour. When you create some relations with any one it is the prime duty of the both to should honour the likes and dislikes of the each other. Any kind of ego will spoil the relations. So there is only one farmula of give the honour and love and take the same.
2007-03-25 04:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by YASHPAL T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are hard because we do not love one another. Yes, we all have difference of opinion, but that is what makes relationships interesting. Listening is a virtue, not all have the patience to listen to others talk. We want to voice our opinions even if it is at the wrong time. So young lady 13 months of relationship is an eternity to you, my suggestion is get out and find someone that can listen to you and you listen to him. It is fun when both parties have time to voice their likes and dislikes.
2007-03-25 04:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by eseven57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there not , if its hard hes not the right one for you, 13 months into the relationship shouldnt be hard, thats the honeymoon period , i think you dont really know somone untill you have lived with that person, and then you learn all there annoying little habbits, if you are finding it hard this early maybe it was not meant to be, my husband and i have been together for 9 years and have 4 beautiful children, its not hard, it can be stress full sometimes but i have never once thought my god this is hard, he is my best freind and i tell him everything and i mean everything, this is the way it should be ...shouldnt it?
2007-03-25 04:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by mumma_of_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Relationships are hard to maintain. I just had a year and 3 months yesterday. And lets just say it didn't go well as you can see the canvas on my face...
2007-03-25 04:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard because both have different background and different lifestyle. As long as we are ready to love, share and tolerate, relationship would be much easier.
2007-03-25 04:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by † Iríšh † 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is hard because the other forgets your feeling and goes ahead with their own plans. Sometimes you have to sacrifice more than the other to make things work which can be really heartbreaking.
2007-03-25 04:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by MOMMY585 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relationships are give and take it is a bout both of you I beleive when you stop caring about your partners feeling and wants you may as well say it is over. IWe at times have to overlook little annoying things.
2007-03-25 04:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋