Im with this guys and he has a babymama she doesnt know anything about me and weve had several words.I care so much about him that i can put up with it do you think im waisting my time or should i stand strong by him he loves me very much and tells her im #1 all the time but sometimes i have my doubts they say that a man with a baby always returns to his bm.. So my question is, Is it true that guys always go back to there babymamas...
2007-03-24 21:27:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no it's not always true
2007-03-24 21:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it that he tells her that you're #1, but in the beginning, you say that she knows nothing about you? My advice? Run like the wind, girl!!!
Value yourself enough to know that you deserve to not have to "put up" with ANYTHING that you're not comfortable with. (especially babymamadrama) There are plenty of wonderful guys out there, you just need to be patient, not settle for less and DEMAND the best.
To answer your direct question, it's not always true that guys go back to their babymamas, but you will always have that other woman there, lurking in the shadows that a) is 9 times out of 10, his ex b) probably still interested in him and c) the human source of his child. That combination is hard for a man to resist, unless they just really hate each other. There's always a huge chance that he will go dip in and out every now and again.
2007-03-25 04:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by SedaCanela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats not always true ..my ex who is was with for 4 years has a baby mama and even now that we are not togeather he still remains true to his word that he would never go back to her...but every man is difffrent I think it depends on why thier relationship ended in the first place...
2007-03-25 04:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by cherished218 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my ex and I got together very young, had a baby very young and we seperated when she was 6 months old. SHE Is now 9 and we have never gotten back...nor do I think either one of us wants to.
We are great friends and we are both in relationships but to answer your question, NOPE..
BUT I would go with my gut.
2007-03-25 04:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Kay Rep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if by 'babymama' you mean the dust that we all return to when we die, then yes we will all eventually go back to our babymama.
2007-03-25 04:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do what you feel that you must do. he may return to her then back to you then repeat it over and over , you are best to move on and find a new guy , there are too many fih in the sea to be in a endless cycle like that . best of wishes ,,
2007-03-25 04:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they do...if they do get back together you should be happy for their child.
2007-03-25 04:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't generalize about all men with kids. look at their relationship and trust your instincts. if his child's mother doesn't know about you maybe he's still with her and doesn't want her to know about you.
2007-03-25 06:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by a_non_ah_mus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, for a booty call and thats about it.
babymammas... you mean their illigitmate childrens mothers
2007-03-25 04:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might go back or he might not.... luck of the draw...
2007-03-25 04:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋