Does it make me Bi-sexual if i get turned on by girls, but don't want a relationship with them?

Question

like i get turned on by them but i would never want a relationship with a girl i only want a relationship with a guy.

Answer 1

Well remember some consider sexuality fluid, and while most people have preferences, supposedly there are a lot of people who are not completely 100% straight. I think you might be a little bi, even if you are mainly attracted to men. Bisexuality does not mean 50/50, but a person could be more towards one spectrum than the other. You say that you are attracted to men and apprarently are emotiuonally attracted to men, and don't want a relationship with women, because you aren't emotionally attracted to them. So my conclusion is that your preference is more towards the straight spectrum, but I think you might be bi or at least bicurious. The reason I say this is because while love/emotional connection is part of one's sexual orientation sexual/physical attraction is also. They go hand in hand. You seem to be sexually attracted or find women sexually attractive or have lust for the same sex, so that would be an indicator of some tenedencies. Just enjoy yourself and experiment, but don't feel bad or anything or deny this, because it's fine. Luckily for you, since you are a woman, you can have the freedom or much more freedom to have fun with girls than bi guys can, because of the way the partriarchal society of American views girl/girl being great compared to the stigma of men experimenting or having an bi attraction.

Answer 2

If you are only turned on by girls and never willing to have any kind of encounter with them, then you are just you. If you think of labels as distance markers rather than boxes, then you are closer to the one labelled straight. You will probably find that a lot of "straight women" are in the same position as you.

However, if you are willing to have sex with another girl on a regular basis, then you are bisexual. The label "bisexual" covers a vast range of sexualities - since human sexuality exists on a multidimensional continuum rather than discrete categories.

If you primarily have a relationship with one gender but only casual play with the other gender, this would make you a hedonistic bisexual. Its not really a label - more of a description.

Answer 3

With the high amounts of sexuality in the media our brain and body learns to respond to anything recognize as sexual on any person, either male or female. So no I do no believe that you are bi-sexual for responding after being conditioned to elicit an aroused feelings after seeing a girl. Also, it possible that you are noticing great attributes on other girls and mistaking your appreciate of form for arousal (since American culture often doesnt attempt to teach us that their is more to consider than sex involved when we look at one another)

Ultimately it is up to you to decide what actions you will take in the future regarding the issue including deciphering your feelings and whether or not you believe it is okay to have them. (Your mind and your body are the only things you truly own, so yes you can control your thoughts with a little practice! )

I do not encourage people to live life trying to identify themselves as a specific sexual label because I feel it actual encourages or pigeon-hoels folks into being something they are not in circumstances where the person may not have fully come to understand their emotions (this is SO especially true for teens).

Instead, just figure out what you want to be and be it.

Answer 4

1st. Do you really need a label for yourself? I think it's bad enough that people find it easier to understand each other with labels, but what do you care what anyone calls you? Do they really matter to you?

So, to answer the question, I think to get technical, a "bi-sexual" person would be a person who has sex with both sexes. So until you "seal the deal" with both, I think that you don't yet make the criteria, technically speaking. Interest or intention only get you so far. .... but who cares anyhow. Make your life something you enjoy and can be proud of, don't worry if every last person isn't pleased by your actions. You are going to both: piss people off AND make mistakes. get used to it.

Answer 5

Yes. If you find women and men both sexually attractive, if you imagine you could have sexually satisfying experiences with both sexes, you are bisexual. A lot of people want to put more onto sexual orientation, but that's all it is- sexual orientation is who you want to have sex with, not who you want to have a relationship with, or who you feel emotionally connected to. It's just about sex.

If women turn you on, but the thought of being with a woman, sexually, turns you off, then you're probably not bisexual, but just a little kinky- many straight women and men have same-sex fantasies, but have no desire to sleep with them in real life, and wouldn't be able to perform sexually with them.

Hope that helps.

Answer 6

Alot of girls have this tendancy to feel the same way, I don't know why this happens, but chances are most girls around you feel the same way, it could be hormones, but try googling it :)

And chances are it does NOT make you Bi-sexual unless you can actually see yourself in a relationship with a girl.

Answer 7

It is the most natural tendencies, to have certain feelings associated with sex.

It is brain connections that give us the ability to choose and determine our sexual preference.

Even a dog will have certain chemically, hormonal charged feelings, that will cause them to seek same sex.

That does not make them homosexual.
It is only sexual.
Homo or hetero comes through development overtime.

Our brain will make connections through pleasurable an unpleasant experiences throughout our life.

We naturally want the pleasant experiences again.

Answer 8

What turns me on the most is a beautiful women of color with her own natural kinky curly hair, good skin with a beautiful complexion, full pouty lips, almond shaped eyes w/ nice lashes, body to die for, good persona, and educated.
I feel Bi at times but most of the time I am really attracted to men..really fine ones! You are whatever you want to be but it sounds like you're Semi-Bi or just a sexual person...Like me!

Answer 9

i can relate. we're all a little bi. labels for our sexuality are relatively new for our species. dont worry about them so much. i say that until you have a relationship or serious sexual experience with a woman you should call yourself straight because it explains it the most accurately.

Answer 10

I get turned on by girls, and I have relationships with them, I class myself as a lesbian, but hey i'm a guy