I am 21 and I have 7 god kids and everyone of my friends have used me at one time or another to watch their kids. Most recently I found out that I will never be able to have kids. Do you think I can ever get over that and be able to love someone elses kids as my own?
2007-03-24 20:27:17 · 10 answers · asked by LiL_MaMa_1985 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your friends use you to watch their kids because they know you'll say yes. once you start saying no all the time they'll start getting a babysitter!
and yes, i think you can love someone else's kids like your own. look at all the kids who have been adopted and are living healthy, happy lives with their adopted families!
2007-03-24 20:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess they ask cuz they know you'll always say yes. Well since you can't have children, you wont be able to feel that. It's something that can't happen so it would probably be best to focus on the love you can give to a child who needs it. If you get a very young child, you could be more involved in the process and it might make you feel like you were the birth mother. Either way, you must enjoy kids and you could give a child a very happy home.
2007-03-24 20:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughie. I have endometriosis. But I heard it's curable.
All I know is there is adoption as an option. Do not claim your friend's children as your own, but if your friends feel comfortable in you watching them "forever" then the kids can call you Mama.
I also believe that you are a very compassionate person. You can open a preschool someday or volunteer as a reader in the library. I did and the kids can't get shaken off my leg. Sweet kids though.
2007-03-24 20:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can, because if your friends can trust you to watch over their kids. Then the see something unique inside of you. A motherhood quality. So my answers is Yes, i believe you can love someone Else's child.
2007-03-24 20:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats coz u say yes everytime they ask and they u aint saying no....start saying no or making excuses..and they will find another way..to take care of their babies..
adopted kids are always a good replacement and if u love kids u will be able to love em too...no matter what
2007-03-24 20:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by drdevangishah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depend's your still very young live first, and youll know later. Babies are a blessing not a burden. If you dont enjoy having all your godchildren over, than just say so. Dont do thing's because you feel your obligated. Do thing's because you want to. Hypocracy isnt cool!
2007-03-24 20:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by ash89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear. What are god kids? The adopted ones?
2007-03-24 20:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by KB M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because tru friends steps in even if the whole world steps out.
you're a good freind, can we be friend?
2007-03-24 20:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by eaglejhon99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A FEW GIRLFRIENDS OF MINE HAD UTERAUS CANCER AND DOCTERS SAID THEY COULDNT HAVE KIDS BUT THEY DID ONE HAD 3 KIDS .UNLESS YOUR OVERIES ARE GONE DONT LISTEN TO DOCTORS I WOULDNT EVER TRUST THEM PUT YOUR ANSWERS AND QUESTIONS IN GODS HANDS FOR HE ONLY NOS WHATS INSTORE FOR YOUR FUTURE GOODLUCK
2007-03-24 20:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by angelkiss7914 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you say 'yes'. If you don't want to do it, say 'no'.
2007-03-24 20:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋