i don get along with my mom and i love my granma i want to move with her but my dad said i have to move with him my mom doesent want to give my grandma a note that says that my grama gots the custudy of me because she says my grandma just want to get that note becuz my grandma could get money from my mom but my grandma i know she could take care of me and my mom i know how she is too but i dont know what to do im confussed
2007-03-24 20:22:39 · 6 answers · asked by jovanna R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't know your situation, but I would say do what you think is right. If you need more advice, please email me; after hearing more, I will be able to give you better advice.
Either way, the best thing you could do is pray on it. Tell God to show you the right path, to guide you there. Pray, "Thy Will be done, " and remember, Jesus loves you very much. I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-03-25 07:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by ItsScriptural 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aside from the living situation, I think you and your mom need to do some talking. My mother died 7 years ago and I would do anything to have her back here. I am 22 and I have a one year old daughter I have a husband who loves us both greatly, but it would be nice if my mother was here to help me with things. My mother-in-law lives in Florida and we live in Texas, so while we can talk on the phone about things she can't exactly come over to babysit. It is so important to have a good relationship with both of your parents. Just remember that they will not always be here and you do not want to regret that you did not get to talk to them and have fun together. But maybe if you talked to your mom about how you feel she will help you decide what is best for both of you. Hopefully your mom and grandma do not live far away from each other so that whoever you do live with, you can still visit the one on a daily basis and have a good relationship with both. I hope this helps, good luck. May God be with you where ever you go.
2007-03-25 03:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by nicki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay with your mom, you are only not getting along with her because she is telling you that you cannot do things that you think you should be able to (such as lying about your age and trying to see a nineteen year old guy...according to your previous question.)
You are thinking that your grandma will let you get away with doing things your way. You are not mature enough enough to be making the decision about where you live.
Your Mom and your Dad are responsible for you, it is wonderful that you love your Grandma; but she should not have to be responsible for you. She has already raised her children, and you are not her responsibility.
I doubt if your Dad is going to let you get near a nineteen year old guy, either he may even report hime to the police.
Smarten up, before you get yourself in a pile of trouble.
2007-03-25 22:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this your decision? It should not be. If you have input, go with the person who always tells you what you need to hear and not what you want to hear . Go with the person who expects the most from you. Go with the person who will make it possible for you to spend the most time with mom, grandma and dad.
2007-03-25 10:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Millie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are still your parents and you cant change that. grandma is already old. maybe, you can all live in one roof. what if your grandma dies, where will you go?
2007-03-25 06:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really need to decide where you would be happiest and the most stable. also, its nice to know that you have 3 people that want you to live with them, some people dont have anyone.
2007-03-25 03:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by ICEBOX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋