I keep seen my dead friend in my dreams?

Question

Last year in August 19 2006 One of my friends was shot in the head in a gang shooting

He was not a gangster he was always in that park playing soccer. now recently in our area theres been BLACK-BROWN tensions. and the gangs got into it and the shootout happen

Anyways i didnt find out about it till robally 3-4 weeks later cause i was out of town. all i know i started having this dreams

It was me kicking it in the spot where all our friends would be in lunch. And i would see him and say "Wait i thought you was dead" ..Then i would wake up when he was about to talk.

I had the same exact dream a couple of time and all i know is before the dreams i was tripping out and wanting to get revange at the blood set that killed him.

A few dats later i passed out 4 no reason i had a dream about seen him in the P.E field i tryed calling him but he was walking away. when i cought up he fadded away i woke up then.

What do you think he trying to tell me? ..."WALK AWAY FROM IT? ..

Answer 1

At times we dream about deceased relatives or friends simply because we miss them. These dreams may be disturbing but most likely are a form of wish-fulfillment or are based on memory through which we relive old experiences. Some people believe that in dreams they meet up with the deceased on the inner planes and engage in "real" interactions with them. It is normal to miss and long for the people that we loved and that have left the physical body. Therefore, it is not surprising that they will pop up in our dreams from time to time.

Answer 2

Seriously, here's the deal.

Go to the grave, say goodbye to him. Your subconscious mind is trying to deal with you saying goodbye. That's what they make graves for.

Go on a day when nobody is around, go by yourself. Don't drink beforehand. Just go and sit. Make a day of it.

Tell dude all the things you never could say when he was alive. He was like your brother, it was messed up that the world is the way it is. It was messed up you didn't get to say goodbye.

Messed up he's never gonna see your life.

Be aware you might cry. do it alone. don't tell nobody, but your friend will understand. He's at peace.

Trace his name on the grave. burn it into your mind. Resolve to not be like the guys that did him wrong.

I lost many friends, on active duty, okay. So. This ain't no punk move to do this. It's for your damn sanity. I used tohold stuff in, cause i thought i had to. Letting go of him doesn't let go of his memory or friendship.

I learned the stuff I am telling you from a really smart guy that killed a lot of people. He had to let them go, too, and said years later, he joined for the wrong reasons, that all the people he had killed haunted him for over 20 years.

Good luck, no ****.

Maybe on the covert, pick up what info you can, and help the friend's family, and the Man nail the guys that did it. It will give you peace, also. Then you can visit and write those guys in jail, and some good can come of it, one less banger on the damn street, killing people at random.

Answer 3

Your friend made the mistake of coming into it or between the gang shoot out. I don't think you want to make the same mistake and have the same fate.
Dreams are what your mind produces in your sleep. You can control those dreams.
Do what you trully believe is right and follow your heart. And when something like a dream tries to scare you, stand tall and be strong. The bad times in life won't last forever. It's only a bad patch in your life that will get better.

Answer 4

I don't know what he's trying to tell you. Only you will be able to figure it out.

The same situation happened to me some years ago. Before getting married I dated several guys. One, who I really liked, died of cancer about 2 months after we broke up. He never told me he had cancer and I was so naive, I didn't understand what kind of surgery he had.

Anyway, years later, out of the blue, I saw him in a dream. In the dream I said to him, "I thought you died." He answered, "I did." We then had a conversation which I couldn't remember the next morning.

The dream was incredibly vivid. I have heard that people who have passed on sometimes communicate with the living in dreams. I have NO idea if this is true, but the dream was awfully interesting!

Answer 5

My father died 24 years ago, when I was 10. Since that day, I have vivid dreams about him from time to time, and they are almost always casual conversations, always relevant to that time in my life.

I don't know whether these conversations are my father's spirit actually visiting my dreams or my subconscious telling me the right thing to do when my emotions cloud up my judgment. But either way, I listen.

I think you should do the same.

Answer 6

Believe it or not the dead often communicate with you in your dreams because that is when your body is ready to listen. there is a Psychic known as Sylvia Browne that studies these things. From listening to her speak I understand this.

It does seem that when you're angry and thinking about the situation and wanting to kill your friend comes to you. I would certainly think he's trying to tell you is to stay out of danger/change your ways.

One things for sure, the dead know a lot more than we do. I'd listen to him.

Answer 7

Sadly, it's a rather common occurence to dream about friends and loved ones we have lost in such a violent manner.
He's not trying to tell you anything, it's your subconscious mind's way of trying to work through the powerful emotions that something like this has caused.
In fact, it's probably something we refer to as 'PTSD, or post traumatic stress disorder.'
You have probably felt many emotions caused by your friends murder, such as loss, helplessness and even guilt because you weren't around to help him.
You just need to talk about your feelings openly with a therapist or with people you trust until the dreams settle down.
If you don't, the dreams will get worse in all likelihood.

I am sincerely sorry for your loss and God Bless you and thanks for reading.

Answer 8

This is just my opinion that he's trying to tell you to stay away from that area or he's trying to tell you something that he didn't get to say before he passed. I know a lot of people don't believe in spirits but i do because something similar has happen to me before and a lot of family members and i do believe that if there's something that is left unsaid that the person really wants to say then their spirit won't rest until it's done.

Answer 9

i have dreams about my friend ricky he died also the funny thing is i never really apreciated him he died in a car crash around the same time i had a dream about him dieing befor i found out any ways i think what he is trying to say is dont forget about him and remember he will alway be looking out for you so it ok to cry , and to have dreams about it as long as you remember that

Answer 10

if you are doing something wrong in your life, listen to your friend. He is contacting you (and I am not a religious person at all) and telling you what to do.
Don't seek revenge. Revenge is the untimate sin and it isn't what your friend would want.
If you FEEL like he is saying "walk away from it" then you should.
do what feels right, because that's what is right.