A lot of people ask for me for help i always willing to listen to what they have to say and help then whenever but the only thing is in not good at advices and comfort/cheering up my friends i deeply care about they're problems but i dont know wat to say to them even though i try my best and comfort/cheering up/giving advice and it feels like im making them sadder and i even blame myself at times for i coundt help my friends also i feel useless friend all the time and sad so how to be a great advice giver?
and can someone make a quote about this? thank you so much
2007-03-24 20:15:53 · 2 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
I think you're a good friend to them for caring. Sometimes words don't come to us so instead of you speaking let them speak. I think they need to talk it out (Their problems) and you should just listen and show lots of sympathy. You don't need to do all the talking. Because sometimes actions speak louder then words.
But don't over do yourself in trying to help others. Sometimes you need a little time to yourself. Get yourself a treat every so often and that will always lift your spirits. Do something you like because looking after your friends is one thing, looking after yourself is another.
2007-03-24 21:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Gumby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would like to be able to help people, especially your friends, more, then why don't you do a psychology course.
2007-03-25 03:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋