I feel like I'm in a rut. I work 50 hours a week come home to an empty apartment and every time I try and talk to girls they treat me like crap. Either by just ignoring me,using me for their own personal gain, or by saying that I'm just a friend. I'm always just a friend never anything more. I feel like I'm gonna snap at the next girl who treats me like crap. It seem like I'm on the bad end of the stick with women. I have hatred towards women and I can't seem to get rid of it. What do I need to do? I feel so hopeless. Like trying to get womens attention will just lead me to being another "friend." Sorry if this is long I'm just at the end of my rope with this whole love thing.
2007-03-24 20:10:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Body language depicts how you are willing to be treated. Your attitude should reflect what you feel. If she says I'd like Chinese tonight , w/ confidence ask if she could go for some Italian. { or what ever your nationality is } Don't come across as a friend, come across interested. You determine what happens next. We do love confidence.
2007-03-24 21:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by GoldE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is what you need my friend. Man to man....lemme give you a little secret. Women can smell fear twenty thousand miles away. The remedy? start with the oinkers. I dont mean sleep with them, cuz then I would be the oinker. I mean hang out with some girls that you could easily get just to get back into your groove and gain some confidence around women. Because not only can women smell fear twenty k away, but also confidence, and it wont be long before you catch them eying you up two seconds after you walk into a room. So oink away! Now you know, and knowing is half the battle...
2007-03-24 21:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by FeenixTrader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Fundamentally women are very soft compassionate, inside no matter what shows upfront. Next time u interact wid a women, never ever think that you are crap. It is this feeling, thinking that is getting to you. Even the best gals can fall for the duddest guy so you are way better. Just ink this in your system and your apartment will not be the same.
Appu
2007-03-24 20:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by arp_pit_80 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to meet the "right on"is much about being prepared in mind. if you hate them even before there is no chanse.Right?. On this issue I should advice you go to a terapist.
The rest is about expose yourself at the right places with the right categorie for you.
Good luck!
2007-03-25 04:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by janne5011 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you tell if a girl likes you before you talk to her? Probably you are approaching the wrong ones.
2007-03-24 20:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have given yrs remote control in others hand,better keep with yrself only and listen to yr heart,o.k.
2007-03-24 20:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
life sucks that way. if it wasnt girls problems it would be something else just as bad.
2007-03-24 21:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋