2007-03-24 19:50:30 · 11 answers · asked by jed_ss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you give the woman what she wants as a house a car love faithfullness but she still want to be in mesery over the smallest thing and then you get the blame
2007-03-24 20:09:24 · update #1
go to a marriage counselor
2007-04-01 12:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I believe it's partially a societal thing this getting married officially. But little girls are brought up to think about houses with white picket fences and a few children playing amid the flowers.
Men aren't geared like that. PERIOD!
Women are the ones to carry the children, rock the cradle and so very much more in any home. They are as responsible for what takes place in the household and also bear half the responsibility for what happens in any spousal relationship.
Women don't CONSCIOUSLY enter marriage with the idea of making life hell on earth for her spouse.
Women are also responsible for "teaching" men what makes for harmony and peace in the home. I'm not saying that we women don't have anything to learn from you men, not at all am I saying that. It's just that history has shown that MOST (not all) men haven't a clue about what makes women happy and thus bring harmony into the household.
It's never an intentional thing to make a man's life a living hell.
He may feel that it is, but he's half to blame and if he's really interested in having changes made for the better, perhaps he ought to listen to wiser counsel...either a counsellor or someone further removed from the household itself.
Strangers are good, as you can see from writing here to Y_Answers, right?
We'd honestly rather have mutual respect and kindness between the sexes. It's not always easy though and may take work on both spouses part to come together again.
I wish you luck and hope you'll teach yourself how to "listen differently" just for a spell.
2007-03-25 03:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime's it may come from her family backround. Is her mom like that. Cause mine is. She is never happy, 40 year's of marriage to my now deceased dad and she was alway's miserable and depressed. Now she is miserable and depressed alone. LOL ! But seriously it isn''t a funny situation. It took me year's to get out of that way of thinking. She need's self inprovement. Love start's at home and with yourself. If you can't love yourself you can't love another. She isn't really madd at you but you are the first and closest she can take it out on. She need's help
2007-03-31 18:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, she has a personality disorder. Read up on borderline personality disorder and also bipolar disorder. She may not be able to change much, but at least you'll better understand how her mind works (and whether you're willing to stay married to her).
2007-03-31 22:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by cavyslave2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ...you sound upset,in my best advise to you "get a back bone" if your spouse is complaining for baby thinks.just send her back with mammy.I have seen so many cases not only on men but in woman,see what happens is that some people are to nice,and some people think is o.k to take advantage of nice people.That is when you put your foot down.good luck.and find happiness...remember we only have one life good luck
2007-03-31 18:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by 8agm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more details and also its not just woman makes it living hell but the man can equally screw things up for her you know
2007-03-25 02:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by ichledaunte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details needed.
2007-03-25 02:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Roberta S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women, can't live with them,
can't live without them.
2007-03-25 03:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by timmn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what else is there to do? just kidding, you are in a bad way arent you?
2007-03-25 07:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURE!
2007-03-25 03:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋