I THINK my COUSIN is attracted to me?

Question

I THINK my COUSIN is attracted to me?


i think my cousin is attracted to me. he's always saying sexual things around me. he tried to touch my boobs, and he told me to give him a lap dance. he does other things that makes me think that, but what do you think? what should i do? its nasty.

he also moved his tongue sexually at me! he also staires

Answer 1

I think there is a couple of things that u could do, first i think that you're not really sure if he's attracted or just playing, and sometimes it's hard, because if you say something you might get in trouble for "over reacting", so what you should do is simple, go on steps, first tell him to stop, that it's not funny, and it's not a game, use the typically "don't be so immature" phrase! jeje, also, try not to wear revealing cloths enfront of him, so he won't feel the need to say those stuffs, ok...later on, if he keeps on bothering you , you can just say, "if you say one more thing I'll go talk to my parents" ..and mean it!, go and talk to your parents if he doesn't stop, and also with you cusins parents, tell them that you tried to stop it, and that you didn't say anything because you thought it was a joke, but now you see that it wasn't, and that you feel really bad, and your worried about your cusin and yourself....try to be nice about it, I'm pretty sure that your aunt or uncle won't be thrill to hear that their boy is arrasing you, but you have to stop it, and no matter what you do, remember that you don't have to just keep thinking that nothing is going on, this is serious, and if his behavior keeps like that it might not affect just you, but other girls, which would get him in trouble.

Answer 2

Yes that's actually very disrespectful. You have to be strong one day go up to him and say, I don't feel comfortable you treating me this way, get a girlfriend. Stand up and be strong !! You will feel much better trust me. he might be like whatever... But definitely say what you have to say and STOP him !!! Good luck.

Answer 3

it's no problem when he is a cousin... but when he says that kind of things to you... that's sick... slap him hard if he does again.... and if he starts telling his parents tell what he did ;-) you can do it.
ps. if he stares, every boy does that.... we're just curious about women... if you want his eye contact snap in your fingers everytime

Answer 4

How old is he? How old are you? Tell him it is harassment and youshould tell somebody about it. Have you parnts and his parents spy on you guys to see what kind of perv he is.

Answer 5

thats disgusting! if it makes you uncomfortable ( and GOD, I HOPE IT DOES!!!), you should let someone know about it... the boy needs professional help... good luck.

Answer 6

that's messed up. i think you should go tell your parents about it, seriously.

Answer 7

EWWWWWW that is gross........NASTY