i think my cousin is attracted to me. he's always saying sexual things around me. he tried to touch my boobs, and he told me to give him a lap dance. he does other things that makes me think that, but what do you think? what should i do? its nasty.
2007-03-24 19:21:35 · 10 answers · asked by lina c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he also moved his tongue sexually at me!
2007-03-24 19:23:12 · update #1
How old is he? How old are you? Tell him it is harassment and youshould tell somebody about it. Have you parnts and his parents spy on you guys to see what kind of perv he is.
2007-03-28 02:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he is inappropriate with you, it's time to put your foot down. Whether he's your cousin, boss or any other person making you feeling uncomfortable, it has to stop.
There are several ways to handle this depending on what you're comfortable with doing.
1. Tell him, point blank, that you don't find his humor and physical contact appropriate and will not tolerate it any further. If he still doesn't get it, tell him you will make sure the entire family becomes aware of his misdeeds unless it stops.
2. Tell his and/or your parents. The embarassment from "the talk" parents give is enough to halt anyone in his or her tracks.
3. Next time he touches you in the wrong way, warn him that you'll take action the next time. Make sure he knows you mean business. If he does it again, swat his hand, hard. Tell him you'll hit harder each time (this is the last resort).
4. If other people are around, scream as loud as you can, "Stop touching me!" This could embarass him enough to stop.
5. Avoid being around him at all costs. If you can't control that, maybe you should tell another family member to be with you at the same time when your cousin in around.
I hope all works out for you. :)
2007-03-24 20:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and when i was like 6 i had a crush on my cousin but i was young and didn't know better i think the older you are the more weirder it gets. How old am you?
2016-03-29 03:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it tell him to stop. If he doesn't stop don't hang out with him anymore.
Morally and ethically there is nothing wrong with cousin relations, but if you aren't interested then tell him to back the hell off.
2007-03-24 20:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh im attracted to my cousin but i dont do nothing about it cause its wrong ..your cousin is a ****** wierdo lmfao. If you tell your parents your gonna make him look REAL bad. i say you talk to and let him know your not ok with the way he acts around you.
2007-03-24 19:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by JAE FROST 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is no legitimate scientific genetic prohibition against
a cousin marrying a cousin...1st, 2nd, 3rd. or 4th...
This has been known for about 10 years....
As to whether you should like your cousin or not,
I cannot advise you.
2007-03-24 20:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he touches your boobs again give him one swift kick to the nuts. I bet he never does it again.
2007-03-24 21:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.Tell your parents and his parents
2.Have proof
3.Beat him if he try's to touch you again
4.Email me if you want more stuff to do to him
2007-03-24 19:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your parents.
2007-03-24 19:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by divinemadness 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
----if you don;t like what he;s doing --then tell him-------it;s as simple as that------------
2007-03-24 21:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by mike h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋