I'm married and 26 years old. Lately I have been having feelings of not wanting to be married anymore. For some crazy reason I am very attracted to my husbands boss. This is something I have not acted on and I'm trying to get it out of my head. We have two children..a 13week old and an almost 3 year old. I just want to know how you marry and truly stay happy with one person..Please help...
2007-03-24 18:32:22 · 8 answers · asked by jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Choose your love...then love your choice.
2007-03-24 18:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off marriage is just a title, you could love and spend the rest of your life with someone and not be married. If you truly love your husband and want to keep things going then you have to talk to him. Try to fine new things thats gonna keep your relationship as fresh as can be. Lets face it waking up to the same person everyday can get redundant. Love isn't the issue but being bored can really put a damper on the relationship. Maybe taking a break or have him do something to get you going. Communication is the first step. If you can't talk it through and work it out then maybe its not meant to be. good luck
2007-03-24 18:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your thinking the grass is greener on the other side, well if that's the case, start watering your lawn at home. Meaning resist that temptation of your husbands boss.
Marriage isn't easy, it takes honesty, hard work, dedication, trust, communication. I'm been married for 10 years, and it's not easy. But you can stay in love with 1 person. My wife and I are so in love with each other, that we miss each other when we are apart.
2007-03-24 18:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a religous thing.........and everyone knows I'm right.........I got married and was married 10 years have two beautiful children but one day I woke up and was miserable as was she. I realized that marriage is this religous thing put on us for generation and generation.........so now I stay commited to a person but have the option of moving on without any of the bull that goes along with marriage. Sorry if I offend some but its my honest opinion.
2007-03-24 18:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's hard work and most times it is well worth the effort. When it seems to be too much think of the good times. The grass is not always greener on the other side you know?!?!
2007-03-24 19:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 10 years and I get to feeling that way sometimes, too. You just have to push through the rut and kind of reinvent your marriage every now and then.
2007-03-24 18:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Arrica C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got greener-grass syndrome and thats not good by any means. You got married young and its normal to wonder. Just figure out what you want, not what other people are doing and how they do it. You won't find your answer here.
2007-03-24 18:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's OK honey your just like all the rest nothing special
2007-03-24 18:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋