How can I bond with my husband while he is playing?

Question

My husband plays rainbow six with all his friends on the net. I dont really get in to that type of game and want to get in on his interests too. How do I ? He even chats with some of the girls that are all into that stuff. I get a little jelouse sometimes. What can I do to be more of one of those girls?

Answer 1

Don't try
You are what you are.
Work at doing more of the things you both enjoy.
Don't force him but make the other things easy and fun to do and perhaps he will play rainbow less.
As far as the other girls no mater what you do they will always be there, get past that jelousy is a horrible thing...Lets

Answer 2

Either join in or just simply watch and if he wins, does something cool, or simply kickass. Chime in with a compliment or encouragement. I love it when my lady, or anyone even, watches me play and vice versa. When he isn't playing that game, try and play the single player campaign in the game and try and get into it. If you can't, at least make an effort, and ask him if you can do a round or two and if he can show you what to do and all that. Just get involved with him and let him teach you what to do, and maybe in time, you will come to enjoy that game. Try another game as well that you two can play together and when you see him playing online just watch and cheer him on when he does something awesome or kills someone. For the girls online, they simply enjoy the shooter games, as you must enjoy another type of game. So try and play other games, and that one, with him and watch him as well.

Answer 3

i'm sorry your husband is so selfish! the only way the dogs will bond with him is that if he spends extra time with the dogs. Feeding him, strolling him, fiddling with him, and so on. You needless to say recognize how the dogs has bonded with you and the thank you to get your husband to bond with him. if your husband isn't prepared to do the artwork, then i would not worry with attempting to get him to help out anymore. he will purely ought to settle for the actuality that the dogs will in no way be bonded to him... That is going for any dogs that comes into your domicile, so do no longer enable him inform you which you choose yet another dogs or a various dogs. that is going to all be the comparable tale! The dogs knows who has a real interest in him and who factors and loves on him extra.

Answer 4

Don't let him have his own personal time, I would suggest you find a hobby of sorts as well, or maybe try the video games when he's not playing and suprise him.

Answer 5

well first off you can ask him to teach you how to play the game and try to make it an activity for both of you to do together. my fiance sucks at/doesent seem to like halo that much. but she still plays alongside me sometimes.

second you can look for some games that you will also dig that he might dig as well that offer two player. try fighting, racing, or sports games.

and third you can try to get him off of the couch for some other activities you might dig doing together. skating, biking, cooking, scrabble, cough... cough... sex, etc.

Answer 6

try bonding with him through video games like buy a wii and play with him, or buy 2 ds lite systems so you could swap game ideas and play wirelessly.

Answer 7

You can't force yourself to like a game; if you want to game with him find something you like and ask him to join you.

Answer 8

if playing the game time is more than the playing with you time... well... he'll be playing with his self alot more in the near future i bet

Answer 9

i went through the same thing i believe that feelings have alot to do with it mabye you are not just in to it like you used to be mabye its something you need to ask yourself but if you want to get interested close your eyes relax tell him to blow in your ear it should send tingles up your spine and go with the flow

Answer 10

play the game with him, try to learn it. or watch while he plays