I recently moved to a new town. I feel very lonely because I haven't made any "hanging out" friends in the 6 months or so I've been here. I have friends at work and we occasionally chat about going out, but we never do. I also want friends outside of work, but I hate the bar/club scene. So what's a guy like me to do in a new town? Maybe I should drag my coworkers to hang out sometimes? Appreciate your imput. Thanks.
2007-03-24 18:13:46 · 2 answers · asked by DumbAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your coworkers are your only friends then you should drag them out somewhere. If you don't like bars, & I don't blame you, then you could try a movie, video games....
Tell one you're planning on buying something & ask them to go along to give their opinion.
Have a BBQ at your house & invite them over.
2007-03-24 18:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband to be when he was the "new guy" in town came to the restaurant where I worked and chatted with the locals and flirted with the waitresses.
You also should take the initiative to ask the co-workers to go do something: Golf, shoot hoops, go to the gym, bike ride, or maybe go to church.
2007-03-25 01:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by melodia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋