2007-03-24 17:51:18 · 10 answers · asked by justwondering 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
WOW, cannot help you on that. Just make up your mind and tried to discover what you true feelings are tours men. Good Luck
2007-03-24 17:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think everyone questions their own sexuality at one point or another, some just more than others, and most people, especially men usually, are just too ashamed to admit it. As long as you are happy with your mairrage and you can realize these are just small fantasies & nothing more, I would say give yourself time to see if anything changes before you do something drastic.
2007-03-25 00:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by danielle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need counselling. No-one here can give you the help you need. This is not something you need to destroy yourself over. Seek professional help. Talk to someone who can help you figure out your sexuality, feelings, and the direction you should be taking.
Tough journey ahead. I wish you all the very best.
2007-03-25 00:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by belmyst 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal....i think you should explore your sexuality a bit.
I mean you could be bi-->you could be gay who knows until you figure it out for yourself. Only you can be the judge of your life. I would suggest that you might try crusing for a bit in known crusing areas because men like yourself are just looking for a bit of fun. but they may love their wife and children enough not to leave them. you might wanna try looking for "crusing for sex" and search for your area and see what parts of the city are known hotspots for anonymous sex like washrooms,parks,bathhouses,malls,libraries etc
then you can ascertain for yourself what lifestyle you prefer.
then you may want to leave your wife if you have found some hot young stud twink...i wouldn't suggest "coming out" until your absolutely sure of what you want. If you like penis then so be it. thats what you prefer. but if you like females too then you might be bi. there are bisexual and gay groups available in gay meccas and big cities so your not alone...and you can even go on gay.com and say that your curious or bi or married and you'll find a perfect match in no time.you don't even have to fill out all of the areas on your profile for gay.com you can just leave it blank. make sure you take it easy on your first encounter and don't push yourself. be well educated in gay sex. and remember if you want to try anal. you should do rimming first.
peace
2007-03-25 01:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek out a professional, if you are bisexual and can't deal with it you need to get your priorities in line because you are married. Do it soon, you don't want to wind up in an unhappy relationship with lots of baggage.
2007-03-25 01:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't waste your money on a heterosexual professional MORON! Try it with a guy, and think. Do you enjoy sex with your wife? Maybe talk to her about it, if you think she could be understanding.
And don't worry about it. Being gay is fun. you just need to find the right people.
2007-03-25 01:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsay M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to think of men, thining of men doesn't mean you are gay, you can find other males attractive, doesn't mean anything. Now if you are thinking sexual thoughts, that's another story...or is it? As much as people hate to admit it, at one point or other, we have though or will think about being with the same sex, it's perfectly natural. That's what are brains are for, to think about things. Just try to control your thoughts about men, you are married, just all about mind control.
2007-03-25 00:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dasdream 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Maybe you're bisexual.
Whatever it is, this is something that you, yourself, has to work on acknowledging.
No amount of counseling can help you. Only you can figure this one out.
2007-03-25 01:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mark A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lil secret i was invovled with a woman for ten years who was married her husband just didnt do it for her.
2007-03-25 02:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have homosexual tendencies...
2007-03-25 01:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋