2007-03-24 17:21:53 · 14 answers · asked by Miss.MOCHA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but what if you have talk over with him and he still don't get what to do? help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-24 17:32:17 · update #1
I don't think you can't get your husband to be romantic. You can initiate by planning a nice romantic dinner for the two of you. If you want romance show him romance. You'll be surprised to know that some men don't know how to be romantic and it takes a great woman to add romance to the marriage. It's OK, if you do it. :)
2007-03-24 17:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you probably can't. Some guys just don't learn They can remember batting averages from ten years ago, but forget your birthday. They buy their wife, for her 30th birthday, a membership in a gym, and a low cal cookbook. They honestly have no clue. It's probably a recessive gene. A lot of them are great guys, guys that would walk through fire for their families- but they ain't romantic. So, smile when you open the snow-blower Christmas morning- and remember that he ACTUALLY thinks it was a good gift
2007-03-24 19:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the first step.. Do a romantic dinner or run a bubble bath and invite him to join you.. Then hopefully he will get the hint and start doing romantic things with out you have to do all the work..
2007-03-24 17:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie Lynn A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
More Romantic in what way? the way you see romance ?
he may already be romantic just not what you expect.
look at the little "extras" he does and appriciate them
mine does not do flowers or gifts. But if I walk in with the sniffles he is right there with some Kleenex and chicken soup
2007-03-24 17:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by G L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to be really soft with him, lower the light in your house a bit, put some romantic music , the best music is the music for massage sessions. let the house smell like flowers by scented candles. try to wear sexy stuff and talk to him really softly , the soft voice is make men go crazy.
2007-03-24 17:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Prof.G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well the way to a mans heart is the bed room.. Take that away you will get what ever you want out of him . Or you can spice things up for him and let him know. If you meet my need then I will meet yours. All men are like this. They never meet the need of a woman so you just need to know how to turn the tables around to your advantage
2007-03-24 17:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Monie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so you say you've talked to him?...does he understand where you're comming from?
tell him that you need a little affection every now and then. tell him that you know he loves you, but a little romantic surprise dinner wouldn't hurt. and you want to feel special again.[say again to let him know he's made you feel special before]
some men like a little initiation and aggressiveness.
just don't make him bleed too much! :0)
2007-03-24 17:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I came home one night and the house was quiet and dark with only a flicker of light coming from the bathroom. When I went in, there was my woman in a tub filled with bubbles, candles, and a bottle of wine. Need I say more? Have fun.
2007-03-24 17:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by RickinAlaska 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be more romantic to him - we really do like that stuff. And he'll probably get the hint...
2007-03-24 17:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol you must be young lol,,, but , you know god gave you a body different from men , right,,, well use it lol,,, thake thos babies out an let them bounce an jiggle,, you get a bite yto night,if you use the bait right, lol,, that dont work,, well you can alway fall back on the iron fry pan ,lol hugs
2007-03-25 02:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋