okay so i want to know if my friend is lesbian bi or like straight
we got drunk a few times and she was veryy close to me she was always touching me in one way or another, she always wanted hugs and would want to hold hands or ask really awkward question; even my friend noticed it and it's not just when she's drunk but she does it when she's sober too.
She prefers girl company to boys, and when she broke up with her last boyfriend she refused to tell anyone why, not even the guy she broke up with.
She usually makes comments/inside jokes about lesbian related things
She always wants hugs and stuff and likes to be close to girls for that matter since there were a few times me and her hung out and she'd sit between my legs or put her head on my shoulder.
I asked one of my friends about it and she said that she's at least bi curious since she's verry touchy feely when it comes to being around girls.
She gives off this vibe that she is but i could be wrong so id like a second opinon
2007-03-24 17:16:06 · 20 answers · asked by christina 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
by you story I think she`s Bi
but the only person who can really answer that is you.
is she giving you the feeling of romance everytim she does that or a feeling of friendship. there`s a very thin line between that, a very friendly person can be so caring about his/her friends that it will look more romantic than friendship.
2007-03-31 21:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I'm like that, and I'm at least bi-curious, although I've never come out to anyone except people over the internet, and one kid from my old school.
When I'm really turned on sometimes I cross my boundaries, even though I know I need to leave girls alone. If some girl acts touchy towards me, I act the same way!
Either way, let her alone. She may be trying to get you to ask, or she may simply be touchy feely type of girl. I know a lot of girls who like to hug a lot, but definitely aren't gay/bi. Unless it makes you uncomfortable, I'd just shrug it off.
2007-03-27 00:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't just come out and ask her, "are you attracted to me" coz I'm inlove with a girlfriend of mine and she doesn't know it yet...I wanna tell her on my own time. I would be so imbarassed infront of her if she asked me and I wouldn't be able to look at her in the eye again after that because I'd probably feel like such a coward...that's the wrong thing to do. Just wait for a bit and wait for her to say something if she is a lesbian/bi. Good luck!
2007-04-01 11:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be bisexual. As far as being touchy with you, if she is bisexual or a lesbian and your friend I would assume that she would know her boundaries with you. If you are uncomfortable with her touching you, then as being her friend you should tell her in the nicest way possible. She might know that you are straight, but straight people can be bi-curious(not every straight person of course). If you don't say that your uncomfortable, then she will continue to receive mixed signals and continue on with the behavior.
2007-03-25 01:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just really like being your friend and then if you ask her if shes bi or lesbian she will get offended and then it will be awkward. If it was me i would come up with some sneaky way of finding out like for instance she might not be asking you out just because youre already going out with a guy and you could pretend you broke up or soemthing or you could be like what would you say if i told you i liked other women and if she gets wierded out play it off or something just to find out
2007-03-25 01:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend started behaving like that towards me once, and when I told my husband he said she had also tried it on him! Your friend is just in need of physical closeness - either sexual or loving and she's testing you out. If she is a close friend it makes it awkward....so you need to tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable - it it does. You didnt actually say if her behaviour bothers you or not. Maybe you are gay?....and hoping she is too. Whatever, we are all human and have human feelings. I think you should talk to her about it. Good luck
2007-04-02 00:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah she is a lesbian the things she does to you were the things done to me when a bi courted me. But we did not stay long. I just found myself to be in love with men.
2007-03-30 00:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by kibbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend is either curious or possibly confused about her sexuality. she may not even know what she wants right now.
then again, she may not feel comfortable around boys for a secret reason and wants to be close to girls. maybe a little to close for some people
2007-03-25 00:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be curious but i have alot of friends of mine i do that with but i dont look at them sexualy and im not attracted to them im just close to them. I would come out and just ask her thats the best way to do it......and then u wont have to wonder.
2007-03-25 00:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plant a big kiss on her and find out.
2007-03-31 02:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋