i mean i know i dont have a pic but i am very attractive but guys say it but never ask me out and beginning to think im not good enough i mean i am a model so whats the deal i am in shape im a cheerleader for my high school an i am very fun to be around whats the deal
2007-03-24 17:10:28 · 7 answers · asked by toosexy_904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
they are intimidated or turned off by pride idk
2007-03-24 17:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by dancingqueen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attractive people can turn out to be intimidating to other "lesser" people.
The sad truth is that people might only be interested at admiring you from afar, and not making any moves other than looking and starting from a distance.
Perhaps you should ask yourself some questions. Does it ever occur to you that you might come across as arrogant to other people? Looks aside, perhaps you are exerting negative energies (such as being cold and distant), which might be the reason why people are staying away from asking you out?
You're good enough to realise what you're capable of and what you can do with you looks. You're a model after all.
There's nothing wrong with you, its them.
Most people have the kind of thinking that people with good looks are arrogant. And worse, that you only mix with other GOOD LOOKING people. Being around you makes them feel small and inadequate and ugly.
This is a kind of plague that attacks people's mind. So i guess its not an option to destroy this thought from people's heads. I guess you need to workaround the problem instead. As a cheerleader, you should have loads of girlfriends to hang out with. Start from there, hang out in groups, get the guys in, and keep your fingers cross.
2007-03-24 17:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie Janiero 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the main reason why pretty girls aren't asked out is because us "regular joes" get overly intimidated. it's not your fault really, but we're mostly fazed whenever you swing by. It's bad enough for guys to be stuttering when they talk to you, but most guys aren't prepared to get into that kind of humiliation.
my advice? don't think about it much. let things happen, and don't try too hard to get someone to like you. I'm sure, if you're as attractive as you say, it's inevitable that some guy WILL ask you out. one hundred percent sure. the thing is, are you willing to play the waiting game? sit tight and just enjoy your life, hang out with friends, and when the time comes that the guy goes up to you and says, "hey, want to go out with me friday night?" you know you've got it made. :)
just relax and let things happen.
2007-03-24 17:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kwinsi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They could possibly think that you're too good to be true. Everyone has their imperfections and that is sometimes good to show to let everyone know that you're not some robot. Another possibility is that these guys think that you would never give them the chance. If you're interested in someone- hint at it and don't play hard to get because he might think that you actually are TOO hard and too perfect to go after. Hope that helps!
2007-03-24 17:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by n1ke_g1rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys get intimadated. Your beauty probably frightens them and makes them think they are not good enough for you. Just try to get to know guys as friends first, and you might have better luck....or older guys?
2007-03-24 17:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys don't like to approach girls that KNOW they're attractive. they like to be the ones that tell their girlfriends that to make them feel special. maybe check the confidence level and kick it down a knotch.
2007-03-24 18:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by madgirlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intimidation will make the boys act like that. they don't know how to approach you...afrais you will just turn them down.
2007-03-24 17:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋