2007-03-24 16:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by bobblehead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shadow her. Hire a private detective. Look for evidence. Confront her.
2007-03-24 17:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by galpal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few of the things listed above explain how I've been feeling lately and I haven't been cheating nor would I ever cheat.
I've been trying to dress nicer (I just got a new job), I've been gone alone more often (my husband doesn't like to go to the store anymore), I've been depressed at home (too many reasons to list here), and was unintentionally distancing myself from my husband (it has gotten better now that I realized it though)
My whole point of this? You can never tell! Either be bad and do some snooping (which is totally wrong and bad for your marriage, by the way. That would make 2 wrongs) or just confront her about your worries. Guage her reaction to see if she acts guilty, tries to cover something up, or seems as if she is lying.
2007-03-25 00:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She starts to dress nicer, take more care with her overall appearance, starts going out with "friends" more often, you catch her in little lies constantly, she starts to withdraw from you, she seems depressed at home, her interests start to change, she starts telling you how unhappy she is, she threatens to leave you and doesn't show much emotion abou it, the list can go on and on. Of course, even if she's doing all these things she may not be cheating, or she may be doing none of them and cheating.
2007-03-25 00:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by 1978girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if your wife is cheating then there is no reason to find out. If you truly want to know hire a private dick!
2007-03-25 00:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she emotionally just not there, less conversation, primps more, selfish, has she begun to disconnect from u, act as if u aren't important to her. does she complain about her life, find reasons to go out with friends, without u. her cell phone, does she go in a different room to talk, do u feel in your gut that things just aren't right, if u do than they probably aren't. have her interests changed drastically? are u feeling as if your always put last? does she pick fights, name call, criticize, or just plain make u feel unwanted. does her family treat u differently? does it seem as if she is hiding something? but u just can't put your finger on it, but u know something is wrong, than it is.
2007-03-25 08:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she comes home with lipstick out of place and that fresh fk'd look. You know that look I am talking about.
Oh, and when you kiss her upon entry her breath smells like penis.
2007-03-25 00:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to keep and eye on her,has she reduce the sex you been having,does she go out more than she did or make excuses to get out more,has the phone use increased more just watc those little things and you will soon find out.
2007-03-25 00:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her outright!
Tell her she has one chance to tell the truth or suffer the consequents!
Leave those to her imagination, and ask her for total honesty!
But if your asking then you already know the answer, don't you?
2007-03-25 00:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has changed her schedule. Doesnt bother you with the issues or problems she did before, or at least not as much. She dresses up more.
2007-03-25 00:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's lost 27 pounds, got new clothes, new perfume, a new hair cut and has had her nails done!
2007-03-25 00:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋