How did you keep from being paranoid about being pregnant during perimenopause?

Question

i keep skipping periods and am always worried i'm pregnant
because birth control isn't 100%
i keep taking home pregnancy tests...but i hate the worry

Answer 1

Well you could calculate when you're most fertile if you know how often your period comes and avoid that week. Generally you're ok in late in the week before your period. Are you using condoms as well? If you're not and your boyfriend is giving you crap about using them cus it "doesn't feel as good" then either explain to him as delicately as possible that it's safer, protecting u more effectively against pregnancy in combination with your bc pills and it will protect BOTH of you from any STIs. If he doesn't believe abt STIs because he's faithful look up bacterial vaginosis or yeats infections and explain that those can spread to him if you get them...not that you should be having sex if you have BV or a yeats infection....but in case you don't know, the condom will protect him from getting it as well.

Answer 2

i individually do no longer think of she's pregnent. yet with the help of the sounds of issues curiously like shes attempting to be or would not somewhat care the two way if it extremely is the third time this has exceeded off. Yous arnt being too careful. if your going to have intercourse you will possibly desire to truly use 2 contraceptives and the pill isn't one hundred% effective and doesnt look after against sexually transmitted infections, so yeah get those condoms speedy clever. additionally if your going to have intercourse do no longer in basic terms flow out and do it questioning the pill would be adequate. it would desire to sound stupid yet analyze or something approximately intercourse, classes, being pregnant etc a minimum of you have got the certainty approximately issues so which you wont freak out as plenty or leap to conclusions.

Answer 3

Try to use spermicide foam before and after the event.
Try to come outside as much as possible if will power allow.

Answer 4

get your tubes tied