help please?

Question

my best friend, who lives 90 miles away, is obsessive with one of my friends..... she wants to talk to him without seeming obsessed and asks me what to do, but i tell her to leave him alone because he already thinks she is weird and there is never a chance because of the long distance.... but she knows she can talk to my boyfriend whenever because i always talk to him. Lately, however, i've noticed she seems to want to talk to him a lot and will call me to 3-way him so she can talk to him and she will say "i love you!" at the end of the conversation and act mad if he won't say it back.... i trust them both, especially my bf cuz he told me it creeps him out, but i'm not sure how to tell her to leave him alone without upsetting her because i love her like a sister....... and she tends to take things personally sometimes

Answer 1

ask your boyfriend if you can tell her that he is uncomfortable. That he feels like saying I love you to her takes away the meaning when he says it to you. using a scapegoat is sometimes the best way when dealing with someone you don't want to hurt and thats what boyfriends are for.

Answer 2

Stay out of it, your friend isn't trying to have this "romantic relationship" with you, so you should tell her that it would be best if they both solve their problems without involving you because you care for them both and you would hate to lose either one of the two for a stupid reason.

Answer 3

just let her keep doing what she's doing...she's bound to get the message sooner or later.....its sometimes best for one to figure things out on their own without having anyone protect them from it....just let her be...

Answer 4

HE has to tell her somehow! She seems to take things hard. BUT she needs to be set straight.

Answer 5

tell her to back off ur bf and your friend

Answer 6

She's a freak.
Dump her if you want to save your relationship.