I am having THE WORST week, a relative died, i didn't get a job I wanted and saw my friend practically making out with the guy i like...
how do YOU deal with bad days???
2007-03-24 16:23:17 · 20 answers · asked by miss addicted 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
live....
2007-03-24 16:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know that you will live through this. Everyone has or will have, at sometime in their life, bad times. Everyone! Cry if feel like it, pray if that fits your needs, talk it out with a close friend or write it down.
Often, writing down your feelings about whatever is hurting you or making you angry is the best way to see things clearly or get it off you chest or cause you to realize what you really feel but didn't realize it.
Keep your head and your spirits up. Just knowing that no one gets out of this life without strife should help as others have survived this and more.
2007-03-24 23:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by howdigethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry, sorry about your relative, the things that you should do is forget about the things you saw with your friend, perhaps there some other guys even better than the one you..
and about your job tell a friend to hooked it up because your in this kind of trouble and you need this,that....or just kkep searching in the internet or anything that might help you out a lot...there are jobs out there not to worry, maybe even a better one than the one you like.
2007-03-24 23:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow Venom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we have times in our lives like these , we can later reflect on them , what I would do is pray for my deceased relative and know they will be in a better place, and the job you didn't get is because something better is waiting for you, and the guy you thought you liked may turn out to be a user and a player , someone that is not for you, you deserve better. Things happen for a reason.
2007-03-24 23:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by artic ranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through some rough times currently myself, I always stop and think. I realize somewhere out there someone has it alot worse than I do. I thank god for the blessings I have.
2007-03-24 23:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by HardLuv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! :o}
Dealing with personal illnesses, and fairly constant pain since I was a kid, most of my immediate family with severe medical problems, confussion....
I probably would of killed myself years ago
Instead, I have a close Friend, and His Name is Jesus.
I often cry, beat the pillow, break pencils, but I cry out to Him. I get on my knees. I sometimes have times of deep sobs or lamenting.
I get up and live day by day, knowing I am not alone. I face life's pressures, knowing they will never be too much for me if I depend of Jesus for help.
I go through life, with joy because of Jesus is my Helper. I in turn do volunteer service- spend several hours a week helping the homeless, giving them food, shareing Jesus with them, praying for them, and just hanging out (they are people with problems like you and I)
It is such a priviliage to forget my sufferings for a time, and go and help others who suffer!! It's like medecine.
You may not be able to spend as much time as I am (they are a burdon on my heart), but maybe spend a couple days a month helping in a soup kitchen, visiting a seniors home, helping disabled, volunteer time to help children with leukemia--- their are many needs out there! They in turn can be a blessing to you.
We usually do not get want we hope or plan for in life, bad things will happen again and again, and friends will often disapoint and hurt us (as we also do to our friends!!!!).
There is no easy advice, but I tell you, don't give up! Ask Jesus for help. If you haven't accepted Jesus in your heart and life, you can, and He will always be with you.
Take care, don't give up because Jesus never gave up on us.
I'm spending a minute or so praying for you before I post this.
2007-03-24 23:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I handle bad days is turn off everything. The TV, Radio and all the lights and find a spot on the floor. I get on my knees and I pray. I always find peace.
2007-03-24 23:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by MrStyle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, my way is that i don't have a way, except just shedding tears when i'm alone just letting everything loose and sort of thinking about it, nothing much else to do, i fell in love, u know, not the fairy tale kind of love, yeah broken heart, it hurts but all i can do is just endure the pain and go day by day
2007-03-24 23:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MKL: i've found that writing in a journal/diary helps out a lot, or even just talking to your parents or something. your friends (not the evil one that made out with the guy you like) can also help, trust me, i had a week like that where my great-grandma AND my great-grandpa died, the sooner just before valentine's day....and my boyfriend died a year or so ago before we could even go out on our second date....T.T now i'm depressed....
Rei: I utterly hate lothe and detest all. . .
2007-03-24 23:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually cry or sleep alot!!
Talk my friends into an oblivion until they cant take it or me anymore
Cheer up my Mom always says bad things come in 3's after that it has to look up & usually it always does
2007-03-24 23:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by "Angel" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get on the computer and answer questions on Yahoo! Then my day doesnt seem so horrendous after reading some of this stuff!
2007-03-24 23:27:22 · answer #11 · answered by Rosanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋